Cannot Completely End or Walk Away From Relationship (Attachment Trauma Series)
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Cannot Completely End or Walk Away From Relationship (Attachment Trauma Series)
In this video, I talk about not completely ending a relationship and over time returning or trying to get back together. It's a dance of on-again-off-again that never seems to end. It involves reality distortion, false hope, self-betrayal, choosing suffering, and putting one's life on hold.
One way to really confront this dynamic is to come clean about the sick dysfunction. Acknowledge to yourself and your partner that your behavior is an attempt to calm attachment distress, fears, anxiety, and loneliness and not a true expression of really wanting to get back together, especially when you know that your partner is not the right partner for you.
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If the topic of this video has sparked self-reflection and you are now asking yourself “How do I overcome this?”, “How can I heal?”, the Improve your Relationships community is the right place for you. To learn more about the membership community visit http://www.alanrobarge.com/community The community provides a structured and reoccurring 8-week program of helpful conversations, learning, and support; it offers resources, worksheets, and videos. It promotes a model of self-directed healing and invites self-accountability. You are invited to join us.
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I offer Attachment-Focused, Trauma Informed Relationship Coaching and Psychotherapy for Individuals and Couples. I work with adult clients dealing with relationship challenges or failures, lack of purpose, emotional-developmental trauma, and loneliness. I help clients solve problems, feel feelings, and get unstuck. I work with clients via telephone and video-conferencing.
Remember... emotional connections matter!
Alan Robarge, LPC
Attachment Focused, Trauma Informed
Psychotherapist and Relationship Coach
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Видео Cannot Completely End or Walk Away From Relationship (Attachment Trauma Series) канала Alan Robarge / Attachment Trauma Therapist
For more information related to this topic and much more follow me on Instagram, I post new content every day. https://www.instagram.com/alan_robarge_psychotherapist/
As an Attachment-Focused Psychotherapist, I teach and promote a model of Self-Directed Healing, which translates into a model of self-empowerment. We’re strengthening your ability to advocate for yourself. As Selfhealers, we take a holistic approach. This means we advocate for your mental health, your personal growth, and your overall well-being. It means you are in the driver seat of your own care.
On my videos, I like to talk about and explore Healing Attachment Trauma, Relationship Repair, Inner Child Self-Re-Parenting, Codependency, Love Addiction, Grieving Break Ups, Family Programming, Love Yourself, Fantasy Relationships, Trauma Bonding, and CPTSD Breakthroughs.
Heal Your Relationships = #attachmenttrauma
Trust Your Intuition = #selfhealers
Repair w/ Reparenting = #innerchild
_________
Cannot Completely End or Walk Away From Relationship (Attachment Trauma Series)
In this video, I talk about not completely ending a relationship and over time returning or trying to get back together. It's a dance of on-again-off-again that never seems to end. It involves reality distortion, false hope, self-betrayal, choosing suffering, and putting one's life on hold.
One way to really confront this dynamic is to come clean about the sick dysfunction. Acknowledge to yourself and your partner that your behavior is an attempt to calm attachment distress, fears, anxiety, and loneliness and not a true expression of really wanting to get back together, especially when you know that your partner is not the right partner for you.
_________
Thanks for watching this video.
If the topic of this video has sparked self-reflection and you are now asking yourself “How do I overcome this?”, “How can I heal?”, the Improve your Relationships community is the right place for you. To learn more about the membership community visit http://www.alanrobarge.com/community The community provides a structured and reoccurring 8-week program of helpful conversations, learning, and support; it offers resources, worksheets, and videos. It promotes a model of self-directed healing and invites self-accountability. You are invited to join us.
Also if you benefit from this video and would like to become a sustaining supporter through a reoccurring or one-time donation, then please check out http://www.alanrobarge.com/donate
To learn more about working together go to http://www.alanrobarge.com/
I offer Attachment-Focused, Trauma Informed Relationship Coaching and Psychotherapy for Individuals and Couples. I work with adult clients dealing with relationship challenges or failures, lack of purpose, emotional-developmental trauma, and loneliness. I help clients solve problems, feel feelings, and get unstuck. I work with clients via telephone and video-conferencing.
Remember... emotional connections matter!
Alan Robarge, LPC
Attachment Focused, Trauma Informed
Psychotherapist and Relationship Coach
_________
Want to learn more about relationships? Sign up for my Everyday Relating Questionnaire. https://www.alanrobarge.com/everydayrelating
Видео Cannot Completely End or Walk Away From Relationship (Attachment Trauma Series) канала Alan Robarge / Attachment Trauma Therapist
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