If You Want Your Ex Back, Do This Right Now

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If you’ve seen any of my videos here on Youtube you know that I preach the No Contact Method… that means you need to stop contacting your ex and stay away from them for AT LEAST thirty days following your breakup if you want to have any chance at getting then back. But this presents a problem. If you’ve come looking for advice on getting your ex back then you’re someone who is proactive. You like taking action. This means, and I hear this time and time again from my clients, you can’t stand the waiting.

If this sounds familiar, you’re in luck. I’m going to give you three concrete actions you can take right now to not only occupy yourself during no contact but actively increase your chances of getting your ex back. And stick around until the end because I’m going to share with you a story of one of my clients for whom the No Contact Method was impossible and how they got their ex back anyway, with my help, of course.

Now it’s time I stop stalling and take my own advice: let’s dive right in with my first action to take during no contact:

Download Tinder

Tinder is a HUGE part of dating today. Don’t believe me? Tinder has about a BILLION swipes every day. That’s billion with a B.

With that in mind, downloading Tinder is not only a great time killer, it actually can help you get your ex back fast. It works like this: since Tinder has over 10 million daily users, chances are, even if your ex isn’t on tinder, one of their friends is. Imagine that friend is swiping through tinder and sees your profile pop up. Will they tell your ex that you’re on Tinder? Maybe they’d keep it to themselves to spare your ex’s feelings, but it doesn’t end there. Because if your ex has one friend on Tinder, chances are they have a dozen and a few of these won’t even know you two have broken up yet. It’s only a matter of time: sooner or later, one of these friends is going to let your ex know about your Tinder profile.

When they’re given this news, your ex will go through several emotions: shock then anger that you’ve moved on so quickly. But, since they left you, they realize the person they’re really mad at is themself. Then the realization sets in… if they don’t reach out to you, they could lose you forever.

I do advise you not to swipe right on their friends at this stage. You’re not trying to make them mad, you just want them to worry that, if they don’t move fast, you might move on. You don’t even have to really use Tinder aside from setting up a profile, I do recommend giving it a shot. Dating during no contact can really improve your confidence and put you in a better headspace to win back your ex when the time comes to end no contact. But first, here’s another action you must take during No Contact.

Clear the air

No Contact is pretty simple: you’re supposed to leave your ex alone to really feel your absence and worry that they might not be able to get you back. But there are a few situations where you can and should contact your ex one last time. You want to do this as soon as possible because no contact won’t truly begin until you’ve cleared the air.

One is if you’ve begged and pleaded with your ex before going into no contact. In this case, it’s important that you reach out one last time and let them know that you respect their decision to end the relationship and that you’re going to leave them alone.

Another situation where contact is needed is if the breakup was due to your own actions. If you cheated, lied, or otherwise wronged your ex, it’s very necessary to apologize to them clearly and without reservation, before going into no contact. Let’s talk about how to properly apologize. You want to do this right the first time so you can properly begin No Contact. An apology consists of three parts: an admission of fault, an acknowledgment of their feelings, and a promise to change your behaviour. For example, let’s say I broke your favourite vase. I would say

I’m sorry that I broke your vase. I know it was very important to you and that breaking it made you feel sad. I promise to replace the vase and never play football in your living room ever again.
Pretty simple, right? You’d be surprised how many people forget at least one of these steps. Once you’ve cleared the air, let’s move on to the final way you can keep busy during no contact while increasing your chances with your ex. And that’s number 3…

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