Can Cuffing Season Lead To A Relationship?

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Today we’re talking about Cuffing Season. What exactly is cuffing season and, more importantly, can it lead to a relationship?

Short answer? You can go from cuffed to couple in just five simple steps. Keep watching and I’ll tell you exactly how to make it happen.

But first, let me introduce myself. I’m Lucy Goldman. I’m a love and commitment expert from LoveLearnings and I focus on women’s dating. So if you want to find love in the modern dating meat market, you’ve come to the right place. I offer simple, foolproof tips that make you more desirable to men in the long term. If that sounds like something you can use, please subscribe to this channel for a new video every week.

Alright, so what exactly is cuffing season?

Cuffing is the process of pairing up into short term relationships
The Season is the time of year this typically happens: think cold weather.

Put it together and you get cuffing season: that chilly time of year when you just want to cuddle up under a blanket with another warm body, watch netflix and get fat together. It fosters short term relationships similar to summer flings.

Depending on the climate where you live it can be as long as four months or as short as a couple weeks. The worse the weather, the longer the cuffing season. Finally something good to come out of climate change. Just kidding.

So why does it happen? Studies have shown that serotonin (the neurochemical responsible for happiness) drops with the temperature. That’s when people go looking for something, or someone, to add that joy back into their life.

You’ll know you’re cuffed if you’ve got a pretty regular, semi-exclusive relationship that developed as soon as there was snow on the ground, with no talk of the future. If this sounds familiar then I have potentially bad news...he’s going to fly south as soon as the weather lets up.
So before cuffing season comes to an end, you’re wondering, how do I turn this winter fling into a year-round thing? First, slow down. There’s another question you need to be asking first:

Namely, do you really even want a relationship with this guy?

It may sound simple but I’ve found that many women get hooked on men just because they’re unwilling to make a real commitment. This is human psychology 101. We want validation from people who deny us the most. All this to say, let’s look a few indicators that you should or shouldn’t want this cuffing season romance to become something more.

This inventory will not only help you figure out your true feelings, it will actually make you more appealing to this guy and better your chances of turning this into a real relationship. This is all about mindset. When you shift your mindset from “How can I make him stick around?” to “should I allow him space in my life?” all your desperation quickly evaporates.

The answer to this question lies in two things: compatibility, and some indication that you actually have a chance with this guy. Here’s how you know it could work out:

You spend time together when the sun is out

This is the difference between a booty call and a possible partner. Can you stand to see one another sober and in the light of day? Because the end of cuffing season means longer days and shorter nights. You’d better find out if you can make this last come spring melt, or if you’re better off keeping it on ice.

You have great banter

One of the main ways physical relationships evolve into something more is through conversation. Are your talks full of awkward silences. Do you find yourself having sex just to break the silence? These are signs that this thing begins and ends with cuffing season.

If you’re looking for a way to make men stay, you need to check out Amy North’s Devotion System. Go to CoachNorth.com for a free video presentation that can completely change how you operate when it comes to men. Sick of short term flings and bogus dates? Go to CoachNorth.com right now. Go ahead, I’ll wait….

You want the same thing

This is key for any relationship. If he doesn’t want a relationship and you do, a cuffing season fling might be the best thing you can hope for. That said, many relationships do begin this way, even if both parties don’t intend it to. Chances are you’ve both been avoiding this conversation for one reason or another. Later on in this video I’ll tell you how to get the truth out in the open.
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