How to be Present & Unreactive with Women | How to Become Attractive to Women | PUA Breakdown

How to be Present & Unreactive with Women | How to Become Attractive to Women | PUA Breakdown

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Presence is an awareness of being aware. When you're in game, the reason why you get nervous or you feel needy is you're trying to preserve who you are. You're scared that she may say no to you and you won't feel like you'd supposed to feel. It's like there's a certain requirement in order for you to feel like yourself.

When something happens outside of it, you lose your sense of self. You feel like a loser and you don't want to feel that because your identity is predicated on the results that you get. You want to get the set right, so you can feel like a winner.

We call it presence because you're tapping into who you really are. When you were a baby, were you who you are right now? You may not have had a personality then. You didn't have a role in life. You didn't know that you were a son or an employee.

When someone is asked who they are, people reply with their job title. They base their identity on their occupation. If that's where you base your identity and something happens that could threaten your sense of self, you get nervous.

When you were a baby you weren't any of that, but you were still you. What presence does is it allows you to tap into who you really are. When we're just aware and we're noticing the world without having any thoughts, that's presence. Rejections don't hurt you anymore when you become aware.

Women find men who practice mindfulness to be more attractive, according to studies. Mindfulness is bringing awareness to your thoughts and actions. People who are mindful are less needy. They're not seeking themselves from other peoples reactions.

That neediness forms a vibe and that vibe is what women interact with. If the vibe is negative, it takes away value. If it is positive, it adds value and people just want to gravitate to that. That's how people get comfortable around you without you doing anything. This is the part of game that techniques cannot teach.

Increase your degree of presence because the more presence you have, the more influential you are. There's no role playing. Women won't act from the perspective that since they are hot and you're a man approaching them, they're going to act out their role of being bitchy. People have a certain personality for different roles.

You'll notice you act differently around a girl that's hot compared to a girl who isn't. It's because your mind has an automatic response to certain traits.

With presence, you're not viewing that ego - that person's exterior. You're not seeing her as a hot girl you have to conquer. You're seeing her as a normal human being who wants to be loved. You're seeing her as a person who has the same thing that you have within yourself.

Since you love yourself and you're noticing who you are, you're able to see beneath the ego and see who they really are.

Suddenly, women are going to feel like you understand them. The result is they're going to lower their guard. They're going to act like themselves, be playful and laugh at your jokes. This is because they feel free from judgement. You're just accepting them for who they are.

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