I Lost all My Childhood Dreams Because of my Dad

"Anyone who knew me could tell how much I loved my family. I was lucky to be adored by two great parents who showed me what true love could be. As I grew older, I dreamt of someone loving me like how my dad loved my mom. They were everything a couple should be.

I remember when I was in high school, all of my friends got flowers from boys and I didn't receive a single rose . I knew it was silly but I was a little bummed out again. But when I got home, my dad had gotten me flowers instead/ I was extremely grateful for his love but that moment made me realise that I didn't I wasn't a kid anymore and didn't need to get flowers from anyone. I was already lucky enough to have such loving parents and that was enough for me!

After my graduation, I needed to move even further away for work. when one day, my mom called me freaking out. saying that dad never came home last night and begged me to try to call him to see if he would pick up. I kept calling and calling but it would go straight to voice mail. I was so worried, fearing an accident might've happened.

It wasn't until a few hours later when my dad finally called me back and apologized, saying that he ended up sleeping at a friend's house and his phone was out of battery. I was relieved that he was safe. But after that day… everything changed, my dad turned into a completely different person. He rarely picked up my calls and started coming home really late. He would constantly make up terrible excuses and when my grandmother got sick, my dad refused to go with my mum to see her and ended up disappearing for weeks.

It was like my dad was a stranger, he stopped caring about hiding his mistress from my mum and instead started bringing her to our favourite places, and even to family parties. I couldn't help but hate him for what he was doing to my mom and I was afraid that she felt ashamed. But my mum told me that she didn’t do anything wrong that it was my dad who should've felt ashamed. It was at that moment, that I realized the hard truth when a husband and a wife no longer love or care for each other, they treat them like strangers completely erasing their history. I thought I would always be his little princess and that he would always love my mom. but now... my mum and I were nothing.

The only thing I could do was encourage my mom to feel better, I tried to do everything I could to help her through this tough time. Still, it hurt me too. How could the world be so mean that the person who is hurting your loved one was also the one you loved the most? I kept praying for my mom to get back on her feet soon and tried to remember what she would always tell me as a kid—That we would always have each other no matter what.

It took a long time for my mom to build up her strength again because she spent a long time hoping that my dad would change his mind, that he would come back to her but longer she waited, the more my dad became worse. he would pretend like we didn't exist so when she finally let him go, my Mom decided to sue my dad for infidelity. which ended up leaving him penniless and alone.

The damage my dad has done to our family, completely change my view on love. I don’t want to get married anymore and I can’t imagine having a relationship at all. So before, this video ends, I want to say something to every man who is about to settle down, or those who have already have. When the time has passed and the partner has become old, You may fall out of love with the person you married or not find them attractive anymore. But If you’re thinking about having an affair, not only will it break your marriage but also hurt your children, because, in the end, they will have to be the ones who pick up the pieces after you leave and see the pain you have caused. So please think about how you could potentially affect not just your partner but your children too."

We chose this story because we want to encourage people to speak up if something similar has happened to them and to seek help if they're still in such a situation. We hope this video will encourage people to feel empathy and compassion for those who have gone through such experiences. And we hope that it will encourage us all to do what we can to prevent these things from happening. Even if it does happen we want to encourage people to speak up for their own safety

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