What Makes An Ex Come Back?

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What makes an ex come back to you?

It's an often asked question and it's important to know what motivates your ex to come back to you in order for that to happen.

As Coach Lee explains in this video, coming back to you after they have broken up with you is something that an ex will do only if they want to.

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What you feel or want is not important to them - especially at this moment.

After a breakup, your ex is in relief that they got such a difficult, unpleasant thing over with (breaking up with you).

It's difficult for them to be motivated to go backwards unless they feel renewed attraction for you.

As Coach Lee explains, such a resurgence of attraction comes when you give them the breakup, back away, don't contact them, and act as though you are the prize instead of being the seeker.

If your ex feels that you are seeking them, then they feel that they are the prize.

Because of that, your ex will feel that you are beneath them and will not be attracted to you in large enough level that they would want to come back to you.

In order for your ex to want to come back to you, he or she must feel that you are the prize and that they are seeking you.

In an ideal world, the two of you would be seeking each other equally, but especially after a breakup when you are wanting your ex back, you must be the one who is being sought after.

You must be the prize, at least in the majority, and your ex must turn into the seeker.

Coach Lee explains how to develop this dynamic to get your ex to want to come back to you after they have dumped you.

It is important that your ex comes back for the right reasons or else you will have a less likely chance of keeping them.

If you talk your ex into coming back or make them feel guilty so that they "come back," it is likely a short lived thing and will result in your ex leaving you again.

This is because wanting to come back has to come from within your ex. While you can certainly influence this by doing the right things after a breakup (like no contact), the desire to come back must originate within your ex in the form of a reignited level of attraction to you if it is to work.

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