Why Does My Husband (or wife) Get Angrier as I Take The Marriage Help Course? | Paul Friedman

Why does my husband (or wife) get angrier as I take the marriage help course? Questions to TMF Marriage Counselors

Hi, is it normal that my husband is overly and so much more angry as I’m going through this class? Granted 2 weeks after I started the class he told me he had met someone new, turns out it’s quite an emotional affair. Although I’m letting his actions be his actions and only focusing on me and what I can change, but boy, he sure has become so much angrier to the point he can’t breathe when he gets triggered (which is almost every interaction now) He has become so adamant that if he leaves me it’s completely my fault, which doesn’t really bother me that he says it, but I am so confused because he seems so bent on never loving me again and he has met his flame in life but then he is yelling at me because he gets triggered by the smallest stuff I do that he doesn’t like and tells me I’m manifesting my own destiny and if I want him to stay I better stop pissing him off. I’m trying to keep focused only on what I can control but these mind games seem to be getting to me. Past two days were quite difficult for me, today is much better thankfully but is this normal behavior? I’m trying to tap into compassion for him that despite what he says, he must be confused, obviously hurting and internally struggling. I struggle with finding ways to communicate in action my love for him, because he seems to just push me away whenever I’m near. I’m leaving a daily note for him about things I fell in love w him about, trying to boost every interaction with more loving comments and trying my best to stay positive. Any slip I make he seems to just slam me and rub in my face that I’m never able to change. Tell me this is normal and part of learning to be married and overcoming our current negative trend to start trending positively?! Also is it okay I’m asking this or I’m I violating the ground rules of the class of not talking about my marriage to anyone?
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