What to Wear on a First Date

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There’s no doubt about it, getting ready for a first date can be nerve-racking. From hair and makeup to giving yourself enough time to get ready and arrive, the preparation is an art!

Hey ladies, Amy North here, welcome to my channel. For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from Vancouver, BC and author of The Devotion System – a program designed to help women find and lock down the love they want and deserve.

Today I want to talk about something that we’ve all been through, and that’s deciding what to wear on a first date. As stressful as this can be, the good news is that I’ve put together five tips to help make this daunting task easier.

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1. Be comfortable

First dates can be uncomfortable enough as is, the last thing you want is for your outfit to add to this. This means that when choosing an outfit for your date, make sure it fits well. Sure you may think that something skin tight might get him all ga-ga for you, but if you’re constantly having to worry about sucking in or pulling at it for breathing room then believe me, he’ll be able to read your discomfort from miles away.

If you’re looking to really nail your first date it’s important that you’re comfort. When you are you’ll be much more present and able to have a good time.

2. Dress for the occasion
You may think, "First date! I need to look amazing!" but if you wear a little black dress to a laid-back pub or a movie, you're going to look out of place. Again you’ll also feel uncomfortable, and your discomfort will make him uncomfortable.

Instead, dress for whatever it is you're doing and wear something that you know looks good on you but won’t stop you from being cool, calm and collected.
For instance, if you’re going to the beach then a nice summer dress or cute shorts with a fringed shirt would be adorable. On the other hand, if you’re going to a cocktail bar then you may want to step your game up with a nice red dress or black pencil skirt. If you’re unfamiliar with the place you’re going then you may even want to Google it to get a better idea of the atmosphere. After all, you don’t want to think you’re going to a elegant lounge only to find out it’s actually a divey sports bar.

Just keep in mind that despite how smokin’ you may look, sporting an outfit that you can’t walk, eat, breathe, or talk in is going to do you no favours.

3. Dress to express

Be you! Don’t worry about going for what’s fashionable or trending, go for what makes you feel and look good!

So, if you never wear lipstick then now isn’t the time to start. If heels aren’t your thing, don’t feel pressured to wear them. Of course, you’ll want to look stylish and presentable, but if you’re really looking to win this guy over then you’re going to want to let him see who you are. Dressing like a preppy princess in a girly blouse with a matching collared tee is fine.... If that’s your style. However, if you’re more of a bohemian queen then don’t be afraid to wear your intricate patterns and exotic textiles.

As long as what you’re wearing is looking fresh and clean, then you can’t go wrong…. Unless you do. Which brings me to my next point.

4. Show your best bits

If you’re wearing a low cut top then cover your legs. If your legs are out in the open, then hide the cleavage. There is absolutely no reason for you to reveal all on a first date, so pick one or the other and let that be the focus. Now, that’s not to say you have to show skin, but rather if you’re planning to, keep that in mind.

Best of all, leaving the rest to his imagination won’t only keep him thinking about you long after the date has ended, but you’ll also avoid the possibility of him wondering if dressing provocatively is how you get attention and validation from men. I’m not saying it is, but remember, this is a first date so he probably doesn’t know much about you yet.

If you do choose to cover up, still make sure that your outfit has a focal point. For instance, maybe you choose to accessorize with a stylist belt to emphasize your perfect waist, or perhaps you wear a statement necklace to draw his attention to your neck. Having a focal point is good because it helps prevent you from going over the top to be attractive.

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