7 Mind Games Emotionally Insecure Men Play on Women
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Is He Playing Mind Games With You?
There is nothing more aggravating than when someone intentionally plays mind games to trick you into falling for them. And there are just some toxic people out there who think that these mind games are the only way to find love. This video is all about mind games that insecure little boys play on women.
Mind Game #1 is gaslighting. Gaslighting, in a nutshell, is when someone calls you crazy for the way that they are being crazy. They are denying the reality of a situation, and they are actually manipulating you into thinking that you are wrong.
Mind Game #2 is that he abuses you either mentally or physically. Let's get this straight. If a man hurts you, whether it's emotionally or certainly physically, then he's a coward. There is not a single emotionally secure man on this planet who intentionally hurts a woman. If you're finding yourself in this situation, please seek help and, of course, do everything you can to leave that situation. It doesn't get better.
Mind Game #3 is that he uses guilt trips to get his way. Have you ever been with someone where any time they needed something from you, they laid down the biggest guilt trip that if you didn't do this thing, then you are a horrible person? If they are constantly using the guilt-trip manipulation to get you to do something that only serves them, then that is an issue for them to deal with. In a healthy relationship, there is no guilt-tripping.
Mind Game #4 is projecting his own insecurities onto you. This is especially true when there are trust issues in the relationship. If you're with a guy and he doesn't trust you to do anything without him, most likely he's just projecting his own insecurities onto you, and he'll use every single excuse in the book to stop you from going out with your girlfriends and living your own independent life.
Mind Game #5 is that he keeps pursuing you and pursuing you until he finally has you and then once he has you, he's no longer interested in you. This is a result of immature guys who are dating just for the sport of it. I know that sounds awful, but it's true.
Mind Game #6 is that he uses jealousy in order to get you to react. Jealousy is one of the most toxic, yet potent, emotions that you can bring out in someone and insecure men who are insecure in their relationship will use jealousy to get a reaction—whether it's as obvious as flirting with other women in front of you or as small as liking other women's profiles on social media just to get a rise out of you. These are all things that come from insecure little men. For me, personally, any time I've ever felt a woman try to make me jealous by clearly using these tactics, it was such a turnoff that I could never even return to that relationship. And hopefully after watching this video, if you find yourself with a guy who uses jealousy as a tactic to manipulate you into doing something, hopefully you can just move on from that situation and realize that he's just a little boy trying to get a rise out of you. Time to say that four-letter word which is, NEXT, and move on to the next relationship.
Mind Game #7 that insecure men will play on women is to downplay your success. Let's say you are absolutely crushing it at work and you come home and you're really excited. If the first thing he wants to do is put you down because you are rising above him, well, he's just an insecure little boy. Insecure people get very uncomfortable when other people are successful around them and, on the other hand, secure people get so happy and elated when they see other people successful.
So the solution that I've found in my life when someone is trying to play a mind game with me in any type of relationship, whether it's platonic or romantic, is just to not react and not give them the satisfaction of that reaction. And if you find yourself in a relationship with someone who's doing this in order to create some type of tension in the relationship, then that just becomes a nonstarter for me. That is something that I would never want to be a part of because imagine what that person will be like further along in life. When you get married to that person or when you have kids with that person, do you really want to be with someone who's trying to manipulate you because they're insecure? No way. And finally, if you've ever been in a relationship with a guy who constantly plays mind games, leave a comment below and share your story.
Видео 7 Mind Games Emotionally Insecure Men Play on Women канала Sexy Confidence
Is He Playing Mind Games With You?
There is nothing more aggravating than when someone intentionally plays mind games to trick you into falling for them. And there are just some toxic people out there who think that these mind games are the only way to find love. This video is all about mind games that insecure little boys play on women.
Mind Game #1 is gaslighting. Gaslighting, in a nutshell, is when someone calls you crazy for the way that they are being crazy. They are denying the reality of a situation, and they are actually manipulating you into thinking that you are wrong.
Mind Game #2 is that he abuses you either mentally or physically. Let's get this straight. If a man hurts you, whether it's emotionally or certainly physically, then he's a coward. There is not a single emotionally secure man on this planet who intentionally hurts a woman. If you're finding yourself in this situation, please seek help and, of course, do everything you can to leave that situation. It doesn't get better.
Mind Game #3 is that he uses guilt trips to get his way. Have you ever been with someone where any time they needed something from you, they laid down the biggest guilt trip that if you didn't do this thing, then you are a horrible person? If they are constantly using the guilt-trip manipulation to get you to do something that only serves them, then that is an issue for them to deal with. In a healthy relationship, there is no guilt-tripping.
Mind Game #4 is projecting his own insecurities onto you. This is especially true when there are trust issues in the relationship. If you're with a guy and he doesn't trust you to do anything without him, most likely he's just projecting his own insecurities onto you, and he'll use every single excuse in the book to stop you from going out with your girlfriends and living your own independent life.
Mind Game #5 is that he keeps pursuing you and pursuing you until he finally has you and then once he has you, he's no longer interested in you. This is a result of immature guys who are dating just for the sport of it. I know that sounds awful, but it's true.
Mind Game #6 is that he uses jealousy in order to get you to react. Jealousy is one of the most toxic, yet potent, emotions that you can bring out in someone and insecure men who are insecure in their relationship will use jealousy to get a reaction—whether it's as obvious as flirting with other women in front of you or as small as liking other women's profiles on social media just to get a rise out of you. These are all things that come from insecure little men. For me, personally, any time I've ever felt a woman try to make me jealous by clearly using these tactics, it was such a turnoff that I could never even return to that relationship. And hopefully after watching this video, if you find yourself with a guy who uses jealousy as a tactic to manipulate you into doing something, hopefully you can just move on from that situation and realize that he's just a little boy trying to get a rise out of you. Time to say that four-letter word which is, NEXT, and move on to the next relationship.
Mind Game #7 that insecure men will play on women is to downplay your success. Let's say you are absolutely crushing it at work and you come home and you're really excited. If the first thing he wants to do is put you down because you are rising above him, well, he's just an insecure little boy. Insecure people get very uncomfortable when other people are successful around them and, on the other hand, secure people get so happy and elated when they see other people successful.
So the solution that I've found in my life when someone is trying to play a mind game with me in any type of relationship, whether it's platonic or romantic, is just to not react and not give them the satisfaction of that reaction. And if you find yourself in a relationship with someone who's doing this in order to create some type of tension in the relationship, then that just becomes a nonstarter for me. That is something that I would never want to be a part of because imagine what that person will be like further along in life. When you get married to that person or when you have kids with that person, do you really want to be with someone who's trying to manipulate you because they're insecure? No way. And finally, if you've ever been in a relationship with a guy who constantly plays mind games, leave a comment below and share your story.
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