How to Find a Third Person for a Threesome - Guarantee Success

Question: How Do I Find A Third Person For A Three Way?

Client experience: Both people in relationship have had three ways before separately yet did not know how to bring one in to the relationship consciously and safely. They weren’t ready and it ended up doing more damage than good.

How do I start to open up the conversation in a way that feels good, safe, and exciting for both people?

Explore the gray zone (between polyamory and monogamy) and make up your relationship structure the way YOU want with consciousness, awareness, integrity, and longevity. Open up to the point that feels safe yet still creates a lot of excitement.

How?

If you are the person ASKING for the three way:
-What positive impact would having a three way have on your relationship? How would it support you and your partner? Get clear on the benefits and opportunity.
-Bring up the conversation of exploring new desires and share the opportunity
-Be patient: rushing, attachment, and pushing mean you are not ready
-Have the relationship in mind going into it

*A three sum will not fix what’s currently wrong in your relationship. Enter from a place of multiplying the love that’s already thriving. Get the support that you need to repair your issues and explore the three sum when you’re solid.

If you are with someone that wants to have a three way:
-Be open to a discussion
-Being mad that your partner is bringing up a desire causes shame. Shame about a desire causes repression. Repressed desire grows and becomes fixated on and ultimately leads to infidelity.
-Make the distinction between talking about something and actually doing it.
-Allow your partner to be able to talk about any desire
-Your partner’s desire for a three way does not mean that you’re not enough
-Get really clear on your own desires and boundaries

Both Partners:
*Start slow and small
*Have the conversation and then make baby steps
*Check in with each of your experiences present moment
*Play with the edge of discomfort
*Let go of the push to make it happen
*Put the two most important people first

Видео How to Find a Third Person for a Threesome - Guarantee Success канала Jamie Elizabeth Thompson