Yoshlarga Eng Kerakli Maslahatlar- Tashvishlardan qutulish- Vanessa Van

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Men matematika darsini yoqtirardim. Chunki matematika darsida o’qituvchi bizga formulalarni taqdim etardi. Formula bizga juda ham qo’l kelardi va ular juda ham kerakli edi. Va men o’shanda hayotning boshqa jabhalarida ham formulalar bormikin, odamlar uchun kerakli formulalar bormikin, deb o’ylab qoldim.
Men barcha insonlarning o’zlariga tegishli formulalari borligiga ishonaman. Odamlarni yaxshiroq tushunsangiz, ularni formula kabi hisoblab chiqishingiz, natijada ularga nima motivatsiya berishini, ular nimani qadrlashini, ular bilan qanday so’zlashishni, ularga qanday qilib mehr berish mumkinligini bilib olishingiz mumkin. Biz odamlarni kuzatishda juda ham faolmiz. Odamlarning o’zaro aloqalarini kuzatar ekanmiz, ikki xil narsaning guvohi bo’lamiz. Agar siz tabiiy ravishda jozibador bo’lsangiz va odamlar bilan yaxshi kelishsangiz, unda biron xonaga kirib borar ekansiz, suhbatni qanday boshlash haqida qayg’urib o’tirishingizga hojat yo’q. Agar kirishuvchan odam bo’lmasangiz, fikrlash tarzingizga qarab, xona siz uchun janggoh yoki o’yingohga o’xshab ko’rinishi mumkin. Agar xonani janggoh yoki o’yingoh sifatida ko’radigan bo’lsangiz, darrov o’z jamoadoshlaringiz, guruhdoshlaringiz kimlar ekanligini aniqlashga tushasiz. Odamlarning xulq-atvoridagi o’xshash narsalarni, ularning qanday qilib tildan foydalanishlarini va xonaga kirib kelishi bilan tabiiy ravishda suhbatga qo’shilib ketadigan odamlarning xatti-harakatlarini kuzatasiz. Men insonlardagi har qanday aloqa shaklini shu yo’sinda ko’raman. Bu esa menga insoniy aloqalarni formulaviy usulda ko’rishimga yordam berdi.
Siz bir vaqtlar kirishuvchan odam bo’lmagansiz. Va uzoq muddat davomida o’zgargansiz. Odamlar nimanidir o’rgana oladi deb o’ylaysizmi?
Menimcha, odamlar o’zi istagan har qanday narsani o’rgana oladi. O’ylashimcha, inson o’z bilimi ko’lamini o’zi istaganicha kengaytirishi mumkin. Misol uchun deylik, siz juda ham yengil, ixcham insonsiz, bo’yingiz esa 150 santimetr. Sizdan ajoyib ot poygachisi chiqqan bo’lardi. Agar kichik va ixcham gavdali bo’lsangiz, ot haydash siz uchun juda qulay bo’ladi. Lekin, shu gavda basketbol o’yinchisi bo’la olasizmi? Yuz foiz, ha. Lekin sizning qobiliyatingiz o’sishi uchun bo’yi 180 santimetrdan yuqori kishilar bilan taqqoslaganda ancha ko’proq mehnat qilishingizga to’g’ri keladi. Chunki bo’yi uzun insonlarning to’pni to’rga kiritishlari osonroq va ularning buni o’rganishi uchun siz kabi ko’p mashaqqat chekishlariga hojat yo’q.
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