Science with Sue, Episode 4: Pinpointing Emotions
The core part of intimacy in any love relationship is being able to share feelings, especially our softer feelings, with our loved one. But for many of us emotions are unknown territory that we distrust or avoid.
See what happens when we can slow down and ask ourselves important questions about what emotion we’re actually expressing to our partners, before frustration sets in.
In the comments, let me know what you think.
#sciencewithsue
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If you liked this video, make sure to share it and talk about it with your loved ones!
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Let’s reach “Safe and Sound” together.
Thanks for watching!
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In this video, I mention:
- Naming and communicating basic emotions
- 3 softer emotions: sadness, shame, fear (of being rejected)
- Hold Me Tight
There are a number of studies referenced, but the two primary ones to pay attention to are:
Barrett, Lisa Feldman. (2004) Feelings or words: Understanding the content in experienced emotion. Journal of Personality and Social Psych, 87, 266-281.
McKnight, Kasdan and Barrett, Lisa Feldman. (2015) Unpacking emotion differentiation. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 24, 10-16.
Видео Science with Sue, Episode 4: Pinpointing Emotions канала Dr. Sue Johnson
See what happens when we can slow down and ask ourselves important questions about what emotion we’re actually expressing to our partners, before frustration sets in.
In the comments, let me know what you think.
#sciencewithsue
Subscribe to my mailing list, and be the first to receive new, free content that will give your relationship a boost:
http://bit.ly/subscribetodrsue
If you liked this video, make sure to share it and talk about it with your loved ones!
If you would like to enhance your relationship and connection skills, you might be interested in my Hold Me Tight Online program. You can learn more at http://holdmetightonline.com.
Let’s reach “Safe and Sound” together.
Thanks for watching!
———
In this video, I mention:
- Naming and communicating basic emotions
- 3 softer emotions: sadness, shame, fear (of being rejected)
- Hold Me Tight
There are a number of studies referenced, but the two primary ones to pay attention to are:
Barrett, Lisa Feldman. (2004) Feelings or words: Understanding the content in experienced emotion. Journal of Personality and Social Psych, 87, 266-281.
McKnight, Kasdan and Barrett, Lisa Feldman. (2015) Unpacking emotion differentiation. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 24, 10-16.
Видео Science with Sue, Episode 4: Pinpointing Emotions канала Dr. Sue Johnson
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