Help Your Clients Be More Assertive
Lacking assertiveness can lead us to be chronically forgiving - if we continually forgive someone we deny them the opportunity to develop decency, and perhaps deny ourselves a bit of respect from others.
Helping clients set be more assertive and set honest boundaries allows them to be true to themselves, and it allows them to be fairer to those around them. In this video I'll share some tips and reframes that you can use to help your clients be more assertive.
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Contents:
00:00 Introduction
00:33 Barbara's story
03:37 No "no"s - ever
5:54 5 ways to help your clients assert themselves
6:01 1. Decide where the boundaries lie
8:19 2. Realise that forgiveness can make it worse
11:31 3. Practise honesty - the honesty reframe
14:07 4. Remember ASSA
19:56 5. It’s not just what you say, but how you feel
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++About Mark Tyrrell++
Psychology is my passion. I've been a psychotherapist trainer since 1998, specializing in brief, solution focused approaches. I now teach practitioners all over the world via our online courses.
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Видео Help Your Clients Be More Assertive канала Uncommon Practitioners
Helping clients set be more assertive and set honest boundaries allows them to be true to themselves, and it allows them to be fairer to those around them. In this video I'll share some tips and reframes that you can use to help your clients be more assertive.
I hope you find this video helpful, and please subscribe and click the notification bell for future videos from me.
All references can be found here:
▶︎https://www.unk.com/blog/build-better-boundaries/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=social&utm_content=assert-better-boundaries&lp-source=YoutubeAssertBoundaries&utm_term=references
Contents:
00:00 Introduction
00:33 Barbara's story
03:37 No "no"s - ever
5:54 5 ways to help your clients assert themselves
6:01 1. Decide where the boundaries lie
8:19 2. Realise that forgiveness can make it worse
11:31 3. Practise honesty - the honesty reframe
14:07 4. Remember ASSA
19:56 5. It’s not just what you say, but how you feel
Sign up for Mark's weekly Clear Thinking newsletter for tips like this sent straight to your inbox:
▶︎https://www.unk.com/blog/free-therapy-techniques/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=social&utm_content=assert-better-boundaries&lp-source=YoutubeAssertBoundaries&utm_term=newsletter
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++About Mark Tyrrell++
Psychology is my passion. I've been a psychotherapist trainer since 1998, specializing in brief, solution focused approaches. I now teach practitioners all over the world via our online courses.
More about me here:
▶︎https://www.unk.com/blog/about-mark-tyrrell/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=social&utm_content=assert-better-boundaries&lp-source=YoutubeAssertBoundaries&utm_term=about
++Social channels++
Facebook (practitioners):
▶︎https://www.facebook.com/UncommonPractitioners/
Facebook (self help):
▶︎https://www.facebook.com/uncommonknowledge/
Instagram:
▶︎https://www.instagram.com/marktyrrellunk
Twitter:
▶︎https://twitter.com/marktyrrell
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