Most Common "Getting Your Ex Back" Questions...ANSWERED!

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Here’s commonly asked question #1…

“I want my ex back, but I don’t think ‘No Contact’ strategy will work for me…what should I do?”

For those of you who don’t know what the No Contact strategy is, let me quickly explain; the no contact strategy involves not contacting your ex for a period of at least 30 days after a breakup. I won’t get into the details as to WHY it works, but just know that if you employ this strategy correctly, you’ll significantly increase the chances of winning your ex back.

Now, I know a lot of people think that this strategy won’t work for them, and I understand the skepticism. After all, how can you make your ex fall back in love with you without talking to them? Well, in the system that I teach, the no contact strategy is just ONE STEP out of several. Of course, simply not talking to your ex won’t cause them to break down and come running back to you (although, sometimes it can)…so what you do directly BEFORE and AFTER the No Contact strategy is crucial if you want to optimize your chances of making your ex come back to you.

Again, I don’t want to get into the exact science as to why No Contact works (I actually answer that question in another YouTube video, so check that one out after this). Suffice to say, if you think the No Contact strategy won’t work for you, then you’re most likely incorrect. You’ll probably need to use the No Contact strategy to some degree in order to win your ex back.

However, in some rare cases, the No Contact strategy probably isn’t a good idea. For example, if you and your ex broke up several months ago and you haven’t had contact for awhile, then it’s unlikely that more No Contact is going to have any positive effect unless you begin implementing some of my covert strategies I outline in my Ex Factor Guide program. For a video on how these psychological strategies work, just head over to BreakupBrad.com and watch the free video presentation on that website.

Okay… here’s commonly asked question #2. “My ex says they miss me and want to be friends. Should I be friends with my ex?”

The short answer to this question is “NO.” In 95% of the cases that I’ve seen, being friends with your ex won’t help you make him or her want a relationship again. See, right after a breakup, your ex probably feels very emotional even if THEY initiated the breakup. Even though they’ve stated their intention to break up with you, they probably don’t want to lose you forever… and because of this, your ex will want to “keep you around” so to speak. While this sounds amazing to you right now, you simply CANNOT let this happen…and for a couple reasons! For one, it makes yourself appear weak and unattractive. If you want to make your ex desire you again, you have to NOT make it seem like you’d do anything to just be around them. If you act like you want to hang around them all the time, you’ll just appear needy and desperate and your ex will lose a significant amount of attraction for you.

The second reason why being friends with your ex is a bad idea is due to the fact that you allow your ex to recover from the breakup SLOWLY. Think of this like ripping a Band-Aid off... If you peel off the Band-Aid slowly, the pain is bearable… and that’s how your ex will feel if they have you around whenever they feel like. The pain of the breakup will be minimized because you’re still around whenever they want, and your ex can wean themselves off of you as they please. However, if you rip the Band-Aid right off, the pain will be excruciating… so in your case, what you need to do is disappear from your ex’s life completely and force them to realize what life is like without you there at all.

So what you have to do instead is INCREASE the amount of desire your ex feels for you. Showcase to him or her that you’re confident and independent because those are traits that human beings find universally attractive… and allowing yourself to be friendzoned will KILL any chance of building any attraction at all.
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