Unconditional Parenting - The Power Of Love And Reason With Alfie Kohn | DrRobynSilverman.com

This podcast episode focuses on unconditional parenting and how traditional parenting strategies like time-out and punishment can backfire. Visit my website for more information: https://www.drrobynsilverman.com/

We ponder the question; what are your long-term goals for your child and are your parenting practices supporting or undermining that goal? It’s time to take a hard look at Unconditional Parenting and how we can support and love our children no matter what behaviors they are showing. Kids need to know that we love and care for them regardless of their behavior—because we love them for who they are not what they do. Alfie Kohn is interviewed.

Special guest: Alfie Kohn

👉 The podcast provides:

The differences between conditional and unconditional parenting
Why not to use conventional strategies like “time-out” and what to do instead
Why consequences can be cruel
Why “good-job” can be doing the opposite of what you’d hope
How to parent for the long-run—and why it’s important to do so.

👉 Important Messages:
We must parent for the long term—so if you want THIS, why are you doing THAT? Is what you are doing in line with or opposed to what you actually want for your child in the long run?
For example—I want my child to be more kind and compassionate and you just showed time evidence that when I praise them for helping, it makes them more selfish. Or I want my child to be more independent but what I’ve been doing is training them to be mindlessly obedient. Something has to give!
We don’t want to send the message that our kids are loved conditionally—and loveable conditionally.
Need to have a core of faith in ourselves that even when we do bad things—we are still at the bottom, good people. But time-outs undermine this—forcible isolation from the people who love them when they need us the most. And praise for living up to our expectations.
“Working with” not a “doing to” approach.
All punishments (even if we call them consequences) and all rewards (even if we call them positive reinforcement) are ways of doing things of “doing to” to kids—conditional attention and affection. Don’t just tweak- rethink it completely.

This video is about Unconditional Parenting - The Power Of Love And Reason With Alfie Kohn but also try to cover the following subject:

Parenting advice
Unconditional parenting by Alfie Kohn
Healthy Parent-Child Relationship

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