7 Powerful Ways to Help Your Client Overcome Relationship Insecurity

Insecurity damages, and can even destroy, relationships, The fun, love, peace of mind and true intimacy of a relationship can be ruined by insecurity, where the insecure person will see problems where there aren't any. What do you do when a client is so insecure that the insecurity itself is the only problem in the relationship?

It can be tempting to try and reassure the insecure client but for their partner, constantly reassuring someone who can't be reassured is exasperating and futile.

In this video I'll talk about how I eased the anxieties of a client, Holly, so she could start to feel more secure and overcome her relationship insecurity, and give the relationship room to 'breathe'.

Highlights:

(03:17) Why it's important for you to be careful what you say to your client
(4:27) An exercise you can use to help your client distinguish between reality and fantasy
(8:43) How to stop the toxic habit of 'mind reading' (here, using the analogy of a garden)
(10:21) An exercise that helped Holly see how her partner was different from her abusive ex-partner
(11:19) Help them to trust properly

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