When you're talking to a #FlyingMonkey... and suddenly, EVERYONE knows 😱 #narcissisticabuse #shorts

Me: Shares something vulnerable, hoping to be understood.

Them: Nods. Smiles. Pretends. 🙂‍↕️

Narcissist: Suddenly knows all my secrets days later.

This. Is. Betrayal. 🤯

When you discover a friend or family member was a flying monkey (aka the narcissist’s spy or messenger), the pain cuts deep. 💔

You question your judgment. You feel exposed.
You might even shame yourself for trusting at all.

But here’s the truth:
You’re not weak for trusting. ❌️

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They’re manipulative for weaponizing your vulnerability.

Here are 7 ways to protect yourself:

1️⃣. Don’t overshare—especially when you’re still emotionally raw.

2️⃣. Notice who “plays both sides”—neutrality can be a mask.

3️⃣. Limit access to updates—don’t feed the grapevine.
Work on your own life.

4️⃣. Speak in generalities with people you’re unsure about.

5️⃣. Watch how they react when you criticize or confront the narcissist—do they defend them?

Take mental notes about their behaviours. Even if they try to pretend they are against the narcissist.

6️⃣. Set digital boundaries—mute, restrict, or remove people who leak info. Make a list if you need so.

7️⃣. Trust your gut. If someone feels off, they probably are.

Your healing is sacred. Not everyone gets a front-row seat to your inner world.

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