The Hidden Truth About Neediness

TOP SECRET: Your neediness is not the problem. It’s okay to have needs and love someone who is unable to meet them. Their inability doesn’t negate your right to have needs or love them. Love doesn’t have to be equated with need satisfaction. It’s possible to love someone without them meeting any of your needs.

Is that someone you should build a life with? Probably not.

But not everyone that we love has to be someone with whom we build a life.

And there is no cap on how much we can love.

Love does not have to look or feel like a gut-wrenching spiral into oblivion, or rocketing to the stars.

There is an abiding love that grows over time, and with gentle attention.

But, to call in a partner who is patient and abiding in this way, we must slow down and tend to ourselves with equal care.

Try being the sunlight, water, and soil that encourages love’s growth in its own time, instead of pulling at the buds that are just starting to sprout.

Prioritize the process instead of the desperate need for something, and you are more likely to see your relationships blossom.

Make sense? Let me know in the comments :)

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