How to ask for consent?

Here are some simple examples of what asking for consent could sound like:

“Can I hold your hand?”

“Can I kiss you?”

“Would you like me to keep going?”

“Does this feel good?”

“I’d love to try (insert activity name) with you, what do you think?”

“We don’t have to do anything you’re not comfortable with! It’s really important to me that we respect eachother’s boundaries”

No one should ever feel presssured into doing something they don’t want to - so asking for consent is extremely important, even if it feels awkward. And when someone says no, instead of feeling angry or rejected, we should feel grateful that they honoured their boundaries. Surely you wouldn’t want to have gone ahead and done something if the other person is being subjected to it against their will!

Plus, if you and your partner both DO want to proceed with whatever you’re asking about— then the process of talking about it first can even serve almost as foreplay—if the two of you are really vibing, you’re likely to feel both more turned on and more respected by having this conversation before acting on anything 💖✨

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Видео How to ask for consent? канала Leeza Mangaldas