5 signs he's losing interest in you ! Relationship Advice With Carlos Cavallo

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5 signs he's losing interest in you

So you’re thinking he might not be as interested as he once was…

It happens in every relationship – the back and forth dance of attraction. Sometimes they’re hot, sometimes they’re not.

But when a woman senses a man is disconnecting from her or pulling away, she wants to slam the brakes on and get him back close to her again. It’s scary, and it fills you with panic when a guy looks like he’s losing interest.

RULE 1: Don’t Panic!

It’s tempting to jump in and start over-nurturing and over-attending to him, in the hopes that this will slow down or stop his retreat. But in all likelihood, it will just speed up his exit.

Hey, it’s a major buzz kill to have the guy you’d pinned your hopes on suddenly check out of the relationship! It sucks!

But don’t let your emotions run the show. They will just send you into doing things that you know you shouldn’t…

Like:

- Calling him too much…
- Texting him too much…
- Lowering your boundaries to get him interested again…
- Acting needy…

And so much more.

I’ll slip you some more rules along the way, but this one is HEE-YUGE! Don’t break it.

Now let’s jump into the 5 signals that he’s losing interest in you…

SIGNAL #1: He’s Waffling…

Yeah, when a guy stops being gung-ho and excited about seeing you… or anything about your relationship – you’ve got a problem, Houston.

There is a certain level of excuses that come with this territory, too. You might ask him to do something, and he starts coming up with lame reasons why he can’t.

For example, you guys might get together every Saturday for a movie on Netflix, and this is the first week (of the last TEN) that he said he’s going to “just stay home and play video games with the guys.”

You might be concerned, and it also might be exactly what he said – a night to hang out with the guys.

You see, men need to hang out with each other on occasion to restore those connections.

And sometimes he will lower the priority of the relationship when he does his guy thing.

It’s not permanent, but he is watching to see how you’ll react to him taking some time for himself. If you’re cool, he’s cool.

And he’ll likely be right back atcha wanting to hang out on Sunday night after he’s itched his social scratch.

But if you start to get needy, act jealous or possessive – or even try to STOP him from doing this (REALLY BAD IDEA) – he’s going to feel reluctant to pull you back again. And that’s not going to keep his interest.

So watch out for his waffling and suddenly becoming a bit uncertain about things. It will come up from time to time.

It’s all in how you respond to it that will determine if he comes back with a passion… or not so much.

SIGNAL #2: He’s Not So Excitable…

You want to know he’s feeling some excitement in your relationship. It won’t be at the peak levels like it was when you first started dating him, but it should still be there.

He has to feel a level of “positive response potential.” Which simply means, he’s still feeling good about your relationship.

Here’s a test for you: Text him a purely logistical question, like “When does (some new movie) open in theaters?”

If he responds with the dry fact of the date, and nothing else, he’s probably in a blah place.

Not feeling motivated to get excited.

If you sense that he’s just not as thrilled with your relationship, there are a few things you can do to stoke the fire:

For more, finish the video!

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