Punishing Bad Behaviour Actually Makes It Worse: Here's Why

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Punishment doesn't fix bad behavior — it often makes it worse. In this episode, child behavior expert and parent coach Lisa explains why traditional discipline methods fail and what truly drives positive, lasting change in children's behavior. Drawing on over a decade of experience as a pediatric occupational therapist, Lisa equips parents with effective, science-backed tools to raise confident, emotionally resilient kids.

Topics Covered:
👉 Why punishment doesn’t teach — it triggers more defiance
👉 The power struggle cycle and how it damages parent-child relationships
👉 The outdated roots of punishment-based discipline
👉 Why punishments fuel fear, avoidance, and lying
👉 How strong-willed kids react to punishment — and why it backfires
👉 The key shift: from control to connection
👉 Validating emotions to reduce resistance and tantrums
👉 Teaching accountability instead of instilling shame
👉 Supporting autonomy within firm boundaries
👉 Using logical, immediate consequences that actually teach

When you replace punishment with connection, teaching, and emotional guidance, you empower your child to make better choices — not out of fear, but from understanding. Subscribe for more practical parenting strategies to help you raise confident, connected, and capable kids.

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Chapters:
00:00:00 Why Traditional Discipline Fails
00:01:13 Breaking Free from Punishment-Based Parenting Cycle
00:02:36 Modern Child Development: Why Punishment Fails in Parenting
00:04:01 Effective Discipline Strategies for Strong-Willed Children
00:05:19 Navigating Child Tantrums Over Screen Time Transitions
00:06:38 Easing Transitions and Recognizing Children's Feelings
00:08:03 Teaching Children Accountability Without Shame
00:09:29 Effective Screen Time Management for Strong-Willed Kids
00:10:48 Effective Use of Logical Consequences in Child Discipline
00:12:22 Developing Firm Screen Time Boundaries for Kids
00:13:46 Building Emotional Regulation Skills in Children
00:15:07 Building Emotional Regulation Skills in Children
00:16:22 Discipline Techniques for Children

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