Spot Red Flags Or Be Miserable...

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My ex-gf(31) & me (33) We’ve known each other for almost 2 years & we officially dated for 11 months. I can’t believe that it didn’t work out, I thought she was everything I ever wanted in a partner (pretty, smart, educated, kind, funny, honest & loyal).

Last year on Christmas Eve I asked her to finally be my gf & she said yes. That same night we celebrated at my friends house & we all had way too much to drink. My friend of almost 10 years volunteered to drive us home to make sure we got home ok (I live like 5miles from his house). When we got to my house instead of settling down we began to drink more, I figured he was just gonna spend the night.

Well eventually I crashed out & him & my gf stayed up talking about me. Her version is that as she was telling him how happy she was to finally be my gf & that it couldn’t have come at a better time blah blah blah.

Next thing you know he starts kissing her neck. She says Whoa what are you doing he’s in his room asleep that’s your best friend?? He then tell her it’s ok he doesn’t have to know, then asks her where the c^&%*#s are & she says it was just a reaction but blurred out in the restroom drawer.

So after that she says she doesn’t remember if they did anything or not but after some time when she sobers up she drives him back to his house, meanwhile he’s begging her to not tell me & that she had to take it to the grave because he knew how much I’ve been hurt in the past & that he just wanted to see me happy.

So anyways after all of that 3 weeks later she told me what happened because she felt really guilty. I eventually ended up confronting my “friend” about it & it was just deny deny deny! When he finally did confess later he said he only confessed because he felt pressured to do so.

But knowing him I didn’t believe him & I never spook to him again. As for her I forgave her & honestly believe she was taken advantage of, so for me to break up & never speak to her again would be another punishment I felt. So I tried to get over it even tho it lingered in my head & eventually I had to break up with her over it. We talked even got back together but this time things were different, she didn’t like me hanging out with my only friends I had left (2 females) even tho 1 had a bf & the other is married.

She was so jealous that she even went thru my phone, my pc, & stuff. I stopped talking to my friends for her for like 2 months. They got a hold of me finally & asked how I was & stuff. After my gf found out I talked to them just made me choose between them & her. She didn’t even like the fact that I had to think about it & basically made the decision for me. I thought she was gonna be the one, we have so much in common, she’s so good to me, she’s so caring, I’m so comfortable with her & vise versa. I just can’t believe she’s gone. I’m beyond heartbroken. I sit in my home 1600 miles away from my family, with no friends & now no gf. I’m 33, I’m no longer in shape, I have a good paying job but it demands Sooo much of my time away from home & traveling, I have no social life. Who is gonna want to be with someone that’s never home or doesn’t even know when they are going or coming.

Plus I’m 33!! I should be happy already with someone. I don’t want to go to some dirty bar or club to try & find someone again. I’m afraid I’ll just work my life away & never find someone that I can make as happy as they make me.

Видео Spot Red Flags Or Be Miserable... канала Alexander Grace