I was not a healthy partner in my marriages 👇 #healing #couple #love #relationship #dating #coach

And I say that with zero shame Butterflies…. because nobody taught me what healthy love actually looked like

So I did what most women do…

I apologized for everything. My feelings. My needs. My opinions. Like my existence needed justifying

I checked his phone the second he left the room. Not because I was crazy. Because deep down I already knew he wasn’t loyal… and I didn’t trust myself enough to say it out loud

I had no dreams of my own. No goals. No vision for my life. I completely dissolved into his world and called it love.

I made myself smaller so he wouldn’t feel threatened. I dimmed everything that made me ME.

I ignored my gut every single time it screamed at me

And I tried to love him into becoming the man I needed (you know what I’m talking about)

My loves… none of this was love. It was fear

The second I unlearned every single one of these? I became the woman my man now is obsessed with.

Tell me, which one of these did you used to do? Comment below. Let’s normalize the unlearning 👇

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