Mental Health, Stigma and Blame in the BDSM Community
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Part 1: https://youtu.be/5wF64dQprys
The Trouble With Safewords: https://youtu.be/qfpCBKoDrmE
Beyond Basic Safewords: https://youtu.be/S8qZVv4uwqI
In-Scene Communication: https://youtu.be/M1bXislDQAI
101: Limits, Boundaries and Safewords: https://youtu.be/mdfJapAC0Hg
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This is Part 2.
Oh boy ya'll, this is going to be a heavy one. Content warning for discussion of: manipulation tactics, condom use, sex, abuse of authority, power dynamics and community leaders. Please take care of yourself if you choose to watch this video.
Today's discussion revolves around a particular happening on Fetlife. Namely, there was a group of 2, then 3 then 4 (maybe more) people who can forward to share their experiences about a particular individual they had all interacted with. Normally, stories of abuse in the world of kink revolve around issues in a scene: ignored safewords for example. This went beyond that, into the nature of the relationships themselves.
But today I want to talk not just about this persons actions, or what they did. But the reaction our community had, the excuses, the minimization. And what I think of these reactions, and how we can do better to keep people safe. In particular I want to focus on the shift of blame onto mental health, discussing the ableism issues that surround such topics, and what standards as a community we ought to have when it comes to mental health.
FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. All of my videos are intended to provide safety information for adults that choose to engage in these activities as well as combat stereotypes and misinformation. In addition these videos may contain educational commentary on queer issues, pop culture, and news items. No portion of my content is meant to be used for gratification, nor is it intentionally salacious. All content used falls within fair use guidelines for education and commentary purposes.
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Subscribe to my channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/EvieLupine
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My BDSM Merch Store: https://teespring.com/stores/evie-lupine
Business Inquiries Only: lupineventide@gmail.com
▼▼▼ RELATED VIDEOS ▼▼▼
Part 1: https://youtu.be/5wF64dQprys
The Trouble With Safewords: https://youtu.be/qfpCBKoDrmE
Beyond Basic Safewords: https://youtu.be/S8qZVv4uwqI
In-Scene Communication: https://youtu.be/M1bXislDQAI
101: Limits, Boundaries and Safewords: https://youtu.be/mdfJapAC0Hg
▼▼▼ VIDEO INFORMATION ▼▼▼
This is Part 2.
Oh boy ya'll, this is going to be a heavy one. Content warning for discussion of: manipulation tactics, condom use, sex, abuse of authority, power dynamics and community leaders. Please take care of yourself if you choose to watch this video.
Today's discussion revolves around a particular happening on Fetlife. Namely, there was a group of 2, then 3 then 4 (maybe more) people who can forward to share their experiences about a particular individual they had all interacted with. Normally, stories of abuse in the world of kink revolve around issues in a scene: ignored safewords for example. This went beyond that, into the nature of the relationships themselves.
But today I want to talk not just about this persons actions, or what they did. But the reaction our community had, the excuses, the minimization. And what I think of these reactions, and how we can do better to keep people safe. In particular I want to focus on the shift of blame onto mental health, discussing the ableism issues that surround such topics, and what standards as a community we ought to have when it comes to mental health.
FOR EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. All of my videos are intended to provide safety information for adults that choose to engage in these activities as well as combat stereotypes and misinformation. In addition these videos may contain educational commentary on queer issues, pop culture, and news items. No portion of my content is meant to be used for gratification, nor is it intentionally salacious. All content used falls within fair use guidelines for education and commentary purposes.
▼▼▼ EVERYTHING ELSE ▼▼▼
Art by: @animositi on Instagram
Credits/Attribution (Music):
Artist: Audionautix
Website: http://audionautix.com/
Track: Transportation
Licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution license
(https://creativecommons.org/licenses/...)
▼▼▼ P.O BOX ▼▼▼
Evie M.
P.O. Box 31978
Seattle WA 98103
Видео Mental Health, Stigma and Blame in the BDSM Community канала Evie Lupine
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