Do you control your life or does fate? Don`t be like flying plastic bag...

People often ask whether they believe in fate. Those who do believe in it think that the events of their lives are predetermined or influenced by fate, stars, karma, or other higher powers. On the other hand, some people believe that everything depends on the individual and that people are the architects of their own destinies. Both perspectives are valid, and there is no need to choose between believing in fate or believing in the power of human will and decisions.

To illustrate this point, imagine a person as a bag and fate as the wind. The wind may not blow for a long time, and the bag will lie quietly on the ground, but a strong gust of wind can instantly blow the bag away to another place. Similarly, in the lives of many people, they simply live their lives calmly, sometimes things go well for them, but difficult situations arise, stronger winds blow, and those people are swept away, changing their lives.

What is needed to prevent the wind from carrying the bag away? A few small stones. The internal development of a person is like these stones. The more a person develops, the more stones they accumulate in their bag. The harder it is for fate to blow away such a bag. The challenges a person overcomes, the self-confidence they build, and the times they step out of their comfort zone are all stones.

Some people experience a lot of turbulence in their lives, and one would think that they should become stronger through these trials. However, they are like a bag that the wind tosses and turns but never becomes heavier with experience. It seems as if these people are continually repeating the same mistakes. What is happening? In order for experience to become a stone, it must be reflected upon and internalized. It is not enough to merely participate in life's lessons; one must learn from them. So there are people who experience many of life's lessons, but learn nothing from them. It is not enough to merely participate; one must learn. Only learning gives you weight, and then fate does not blow you away so easily.

Conclusion: In life, it is not necessary to choose between believing in fate or believing in the power of human will and decisions. Both perspectives are valid, and personal development is the key to preventing life's challenges from sweeping you away. To become stronger, one must reflect upon and learn from life's lessons, accumulating experience like small stones in a bag that make it harder for fate to blow you away.

Aivaras Pranarauskas
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