Our Secret Wish Never to Find Love
The process of locating a partner to love is famously so hard, it may for a long time disguise an alternative, even more complicated reality: that whatever we claim, it would be a lot easier for us if we never found them.
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“The process of locating a partner to love is famously so hard, it may for a long time disguise an alternative, even more complicated reality: that whatever we claim, it would be a lot easier for us if we never found them. The hurdles of dating undeniably exist; that doesn’t mean that they aren’t also being gratefully used to hide - mostly from ourselves - a harder-to-mention wish to remain on our own.
Consciously, we may tell ourselves that we would dearly love to land on a compatible soul. Inside, we are hard at work ensuring we won’t - and for a variety of hugely understandable reasons:
- because it is simply too painful to hope.
- because we have realised that we have too much talent for identifying characters who can torment us.
- because we have had enough of other people’s madness and too much experience of our own; because humans may be best enjoyed from a distance.”
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Видео Our Secret Wish Never to Find Love канала The School of Life
FURTHER READING
You can read more on this and other subjects here: https://9qq0.short.gy/OscLTV
“The process of locating a partner to love is famously so hard, it may for a long time disguise an alternative, even more complicated reality: that whatever we claim, it would be a lot easier for us if we never found them. The hurdles of dating undeniably exist; that doesn’t mean that they aren’t also being gratefully used to hide - mostly from ourselves - a harder-to-mention wish to remain on our own.
Consciously, we may tell ourselves that we would dearly love to land on a compatible soul. Inside, we are hard at work ensuring we won’t - and for a variety of hugely understandable reasons:
- because it is simply too painful to hope.
- because we have realised that we have too much talent for identifying characters who can torment us.
- because we have had enough of other people’s madness and too much experience of our own; because humans may be best enjoyed from a distance.”
MORE SCHOOL OF LIFE
Watch more films on RELATIONSHIPS in our playlist:
http://bit.ly/TSOLrelationships
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Feel free to follow us at the links below:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifelondon/
X: https://twitter.com/TheSchoolOfLife
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/
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CREDITS
Produced in collaboration with:
Deanca Rensyta
https://www.deancarensyta.com/showreel
Title animation produced in collaboration with
Graeme Probert
www.gpmotion.co.uk
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