Do Dumpers Move On Faster After A Breakup?

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My initial thought is that dumpers don't move on faster but the truth is that it depends.

When I first started Ex Boyfriend Recovery I wrote a lot of articles, filmed a lot of videos and recorded a lot of podcast episodes based on my gut.

But I soon learned that a lot of my assumptions about exes weren't exactly true.

So, the question here is if someone dumped you are they bound to move on more quickly.

The Answer:

It depends on their attachment style;

4 Main Ones;

1. Secure Attachment Style
2. Anxious Attachment Style
3. Avoidant Attachment Style
4. Fearful Attachment Style

If The Dumper Is A Secure Attachment Style;
- They tend to cope with a breakup in a healthy way. They look at the breakup and take stock of what they'll ultimately need to be happy and sometimes if the breakup was amicable they'll even try to be friends afterwards. Ultimately exes with this attachment style are the fastest to move on.

If The Dumper Is An Anxious Attachment Style;
- They tend to get overly attached to individuals in relationships and you'd think that they'd jump from one relationship to the next but that's not true. They are the ones most likely to come back to you after a breakup.

If The Dumper Is An Avoidant Attachment Style;
- Avoidant attachment styles generally stem from having parents who were rarely present, leading the child to feel as though they were destined to go through life alone.Dismissive-avoidants have high self-esteem but a low opinion of their partners, leading them to pretend they don’t feel anything after a breakup, and rationalizing reasons the relationships couldn’t have worked in the first place. “But dismissive-avoidants do a number of things to numb the pain.”

If The Dumper Is A Fearful Attachment Style;
- Fearful-avoidants have a deep-rooted fear of intimacy and often try to run from it, but they’re not as adept at suppressing their feelings as dismissive-avoidants. This fear of intimacy often prevents fearful-avoidants from forming meaningful relationships, but they also often have self-esteem issues and a fear of abandonment that leads them to seek the companionship from which they often run.
Because of this, fearful-avoidant people have a mixed reaction to breakups: Initially, they do attempt to not feel their feelings and instead numb them in other ways, pretending they’re absolutely fine. But after some time, the feelings pop up and they’re unable to run away, leading to even lower self-esteem and the desire to get into a new relationship as soon as possible.

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