My Boyfriend Changed | Here's The Solution!
Are you thinking, “My boyfriend changed” and you don’t know what happened? Do you want to know what to do?
Well, first things first, you need to accept the situation. A relationship, like life, has ups and downs, changes and surprises. Sometimes you just wake up in a grumpy mood!
So you’ve got to accept that your boyfriend changed because it’s just a transition - a short period.
Most of the time, when you see that your boyfriend changed, you’ll be tempted to make one of the biggest and most common mistakes: firing off questions at him.
“What happened?” “What is going on?” “Can you talk to me!”
Though you might not realize it, this can come across as harassing. If you ask him too many questions when he’s already not feeling that great, he can feel overwhelmed. He doesn’t see that you understand him and that you are trying to find a solution. Even if this is totally silly, this is just how we are as men! When we are overwhelmed, we feel like everything is against us and we need some distance… so, what can you do?
1. Distance
Ask yourself the real question: Why exactly did he change?
Very often, a guy is just in what I refer to as, “depression mode.” He’s unhappy about something in his life - Maybe his job is too hard, the kids are always crying, he’s tired… It’s not even your fault, but there is something you can do. Put some distance between you and take your time.
2. Restore the relationship to its former glory
Perhaps relationship changed, and maybe you changed too. So let’s take it back to the beginning. Act the way you did in the beginning. Think, “I want to be the happiest woman in the world. I want to feel the butterflies in my stomach!” Make sure that you feel good about yourself. When you are feeling great, he is going to return to you.
It’s easy to overreact and you might even become overbearing because you want to “save” him, which is the worst thing to do. The right approach is to take some distance and make him come to you because you are in “happiness mode.” If you do the opposite and go to him, you’ll be experiencing “depression mode.”
So focus on yourself, rebuild your personal life. This isn’t being selfish. This is about showing him that if he can spend time with you, then he can be the happiest guy in the world. And because you decided to detach from his personal, negative emotions, you will bring happiness into your world. You might think that this is a little weird because it doesn’t feel natural, but after helping over 30,000 people, I can tell you what works and what doesn’t.
If you can change your approach, then you will become the happiest woman in the world, and even if your boyfriend changed, he will still want the happiest woman in the world! He will come back to you.
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My name is Alex Cormont and I've been helping men and women in their love life for more than 10 years. I became the number one relationship expert in France and Europe.
For the past decade, I have helped more than 20000 people all around the world. You want to find the one? Save your marriage? Get back with an ex or learn how to attract a man into your life? I'll give you all the tips you need to improve your relationship.
Yes, Love can be taught and I'm the expert you need! I have a unique philosophy from the country of love itself. You deserve to be happy and I give you all the secrets you need in this channel.
Видео My Boyfriend Changed | Here's The Solution! канала Alex Cormont - The French Relationship Expert
Well, first things first, you need to accept the situation. A relationship, like life, has ups and downs, changes and surprises. Sometimes you just wake up in a grumpy mood!
So you’ve got to accept that your boyfriend changed because it’s just a transition - a short period.
Most of the time, when you see that your boyfriend changed, you’ll be tempted to make one of the biggest and most common mistakes: firing off questions at him.
“What happened?” “What is going on?” “Can you talk to me!”
Though you might not realize it, this can come across as harassing. If you ask him too many questions when he’s already not feeling that great, he can feel overwhelmed. He doesn’t see that you understand him and that you are trying to find a solution. Even if this is totally silly, this is just how we are as men! When we are overwhelmed, we feel like everything is against us and we need some distance… so, what can you do?
1. Distance
Ask yourself the real question: Why exactly did he change?
Very often, a guy is just in what I refer to as, “depression mode.” He’s unhappy about something in his life - Maybe his job is too hard, the kids are always crying, he’s tired… It’s not even your fault, but there is something you can do. Put some distance between you and take your time.
2. Restore the relationship to its former glory
Perhaps relationship changed, and maybe you changed too. So let’s take it back to the beginning. Act the way you did in the beginning. Think, “I want to be the happiest woman in the world. I want to feel the butterflies in my stomach!” Make sure that you feel good about yourself. When you are feeling great, he is going to return to you.
It’s easy to overreact and you might even become overbearing because you want to “save” him, which is the worst thing to do. The right approach is to take some distance and make him come to you because you are in “happiness mode.” If you do the opposite and go to him, you’ll be experiencing “depression mode.”
So focus on yourself, rebuild your personal life. This isn’t being selfish. This is about showing him that if he can spend time with you, then he can be the happiest guy in the world. And because you decided to detach from his personal, negative emotions, you will bring happiness into your world. You might think that this is a little weird because it doesn’t feel natural, but after helping over 30,000 people, I can tell you what works and what doesn’t.
If you can change your approach, then you will become the happiest woman in the world, and even if your boyfriend changed, he will still want the happiest woman in the world! He will come back to you.
===
DO NOT FORGET TO SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL!
FREE E-BOOK: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/free-ebook/
Join me on my social media and discover exclusive content. I'll provide all the tips you need to make your love life better quickly
Find me on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/AlexLoveCoach/
Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrecormont/
My Website to see all my articles: https://www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/
My name is Alex Cormont and I've been helping men and women in their love life for more than 10 years. I became the number one relationship expert in France and Europe.
For the past decade, I have helped more than 20000 people all around the world. You want to find the one? Save your marriage? Get back with an ex or learn how to attract a man into your life? I'll give you all the tips you need to improve your relationship.
Yes, Love can be taught and I'm the expert you need! I have a unique philosophy from the country of love itself. You deserve to be happy and I give you all the secrets you need in this channel.
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