What Men REALLY Want - (86% said this...)
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What do men really want? Is it casual, non-committal sex? Maybe sometimes, but a survey I talk about in this video reveals there is more than just that.
In this video, I'm going to talk about one little belief that I've noticed a number of women hold onto about men that is really detrimental to your dating and in relationship life.
It can actually block intimacy can block connection and can make dating just frustrating experience.
A client I’ve been working with said, “the problem with dating nowadays is guys just want one thing. They want non-committal no-strings-attached sex.”
And I heard that and I empathized with her immediately. And I totally got it right? I mean, with Tinder and Ashley Madison and all these other ways that men can now discreetly go find a partner and hook up without even having to leave their house.
It can be really easy to lose faith in the male species right? But see, holding on to that belief and not challenging. It actually creates just tension in your dating life and it puts you at odds with men because rather than feeling aligned with them feeling.
Like you both want the same thing, it feels then the subtle energy is one where you are having to barter sex, your body for an emotional connection with a guy or a commitment from the guy. And then there is a power struggle rather than a dance because the two of you don't want the same thing.
That's the belief.
Let's shift that because if you believe that men don't actually want a long-term relationship. It's going to create insecurity in the relationship where you're not going to feel safe. You're going to feel that he might leave at any moment you'll feel that somehow you trapped him and that he doesn't actually want to be there. And then the connection in the intimacy between the two of you is thwarted on some level.
So many women that are holding on to that belief of men just want sex, they do take the sexual advance personally and they feel they got to draw these really solid hard line boundaries. And what that ends up doing is the man feels shutdown in some ways and just stopped pursuing all together.
Now I know that there's some guys out there that when they do pursue they pursue very hard and maybe they are very bold and inappropriate with their sexual advances.
And I'm not saying don't draw solid boundaries with them and sometimes that is completely necessary.
But be conscious of how and when you are doing it.
Don’t forget to download my FREE “8 Secrets to Create a Rock Solid Relationship”:
http://claytonolsoncoaching.com/
This eBook will walk you through the top secrets to build a healthy solid relationship that stands the test of time.
In your corner,
Clayton
Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching? Click here to schedule: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/1-hour-relationship-coaching-session
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Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching? Click here to schedule: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/1-hour-relationship-coaching-session
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What do men really want? Is it casual, non-committal sex? Maybe sometimes, but a survey I talk about in this video reveals there is more than just that.
In this video, I'm going to talk about one little belief that I've noticed a number of women hold onto about men that is really detrimental to your dating and in relationship life.
It can actually block intimacy can block connection and can make dating just frustrating experience.
A client I’ve been working with said, “the problem with dating nowadays is guys just want one thing. They want non-committal no-strings-attached sex.”
And I heard that and I empathized with her immediately. And I totally got it right? I mean, with Tinder and Ashley Madison and all these other ways that men can now discreetly go find a partner and hook up without even having to leave their house.
It can be really easy to lose faith in the male species right? But see, holding on to that belief and not challenging. It actually creates just tension in your dating life and it puts you at odds with men because rather than feeling aligned with them feeling.
Like you both want the same thing, it feels then the subtle energy is one where you are having to barter sex, your body for an emotional connection with a guy or a commitment from the guy. And then there is a power struggle rather than a dance because the two of you don't want the same thing.
That's the belief.
Let's shift that because if you believe that men don't actually want a long-term relationship. It's going to create insecurity in the relationship where you're not going to feel safe. You're going to feel that he might leave at any moment you'll feel that somehow you trapped him and that he doesn't actually want to be there. And then the connection in the intimacy between the two of you is thwarted on some level.
So many women that are holding on to that belief of men just want sex, they do take the sexual advance personally and they feel they got to draw these really solid hard line boundaries. And what that ends up doing is the man feels shutdown in some ways and just stopped pursuing all together.
Now I know that there's some guys out there that when they do pursue they pursue very hard and maybe they are very bold and inappropriate with their sexual advances.
And I'm not saying don't draw solid boundaries with them and sometimes that is completely necessary.
But be conscious of how and when you are doing it.
Don’t forget to download my FREE “8 Secrets to Create a Rock Solid Relationship”:
http://claytonolsoncoaching.com/
This eBook will walk you through the top secrets to build a healthy solid relationship that stands the test of time.
In your corner,
Clayton
Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching? Click here to schedule: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/1-hour-relationship-coaching-session
Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/c/claytonolsoncoaching
FREE EBOOK: “8 SECRETS TO CREATE A ROCK SOLID RELATIONSHIP”
➜ http://claytonolsoncoaching.com/
CONNECT WITH ME
➜ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ClaytonOlson101/?ref=hl
➜ TWITTER: https://twitter.com/ClaytonROlson
➜ PINTEREST: https://www.pinterest.com/ClaytonCoaching/
➜ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/claytonolsoncoaching/?hl=en
VISIT THE WEBSITE:
➜ http://claytonolsoncoaching.com/
SEND ME AN EMAIL:
➜ clayton@claytonolsoncoaching.com
Share this video:
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