Sexual 9 on Being Hooked or Catatonic | Enneagram Interview

UPDATE: Kaisa's Heart Fix has been updated from 3w4 to 3w2.

Kaisa Jauhiainen on Being an SX 9: "I'm Either Hooked or Catatonic;" Erotic Releases of Anger; and Seeking Essential Harmony through the SX Instinct.

Kaisa is a psychology and neuroscience graduate student and Enneagram enthusiast with an exceptional ability to articulate her experience of SX 9-ness. Enjoy.

This is episode #13 of the Enneagram School Podcast, What It's Like to Be You. You can listen to that here:

https://www.theenneagramschool.com/podcasts/what-it-s-like-to-be-you/episodes/2148371303

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Timestamps

0:00 Intro
2:56 Kaisa's typing
5:10 Flatline (935) vs triple reactive (846) overlay, 9 core withdrawn vs 8 wing assertive + sexual dom need to broadcast self
9:53 SX 9 being hooked by something or catatonic
13:31 "When there's no juice, I go catatonic;" Using sharp objects to keep myself awake at school; Kaisa's flatline delivery of severe subjects
19:11 Head last energy
21:26 How are you feeling right now? (Regrounding, getting back to we-space)
24:33 Body vs head types processing in real-time
26:11 Difficult to rev my own engine, but it gets revved by SX things (SX 9 receptivity)
29:37 SX + double competence; collecting SX resources; eating so I smell good, sensitivity to smells
35:20 SX competency story -- collecting data; fulfilling SP blind needs via SX dom motivations
42:33 Out of body vs in body experience; re-inhabiting my body -- the 9 growth journey
45:29 Exploring SP blind; not recognizing mortality in our body
49:12 "Assertive" SX pursuit of crush with double withdrawn energy; & the SX/SO targeted magnetism dance
50:50 the urgency of SX dom
54:17 Boundaries & experiencing my distinctness
1:00:28 SX/SO "blurry friendships," different from Social
1:01:57 SX ecstasy, loss of self, now I can die in peace; Seeking "Essential Harmony" through SX
1:12:21 Renewing SX chemistry in stable relationships
1:16:48 Sexual chess; Advice for SX blinds
1:21:34 Closing, final reflections

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