Unhappy Marriage Signs | BIG Red Flags And Top Signs You Are In An Unhappy Marriage

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Unhappy Marriage Signs | BIG Red Flags And Top Signs You Are In An Unhappy Marriage

I want to know the red flags that tell me I'm in an unhappy marriage.

My name is Coach Natalie and I'm a relationship coach and I've dedicated my entire life toward helping people like you answer big questions like this. To help you determine the red flags that might mean that you're an unhappy relationship.

The first flag to be totally honest with you is if you're watching this video. If you are on the internet googling what defines an unhappy relationship it might mean that you are unhappy in your relationship. And if you're unhappy then this is what an unhappy relationship looks like and feels like.

When it comes to being unhappy in a relationship there's a humongous question to ask yourself: are you unhappy in your relationship or are you unhappy with you? If you are unhappy with yourself my recommendation before throwing in the towel on your marriage is to focus on your personal development. Even in the biggest of ruins that potential to save it is possible if each of the two are willing to work on themselves while working on the relationship. So if you are unhappy in your marriage my first recommendation for you is to work on yourself first identify what your insecurities are, identify where you are unhappy. Narrowly define what is making you unhappy before you just throw it in the bucket of an unhappy marriage. Usually when we're unhappy with ourselves our marriage our relationship is the first thing that takes a hit and then we blame the relationship for having made us unhappy.

Another red flag that you might be an unhappy marriage is when the two of you just can't talk to each other anymore. It just becomes a blur and no conversation ever finds resolve. That is a sign that the two of you are in an unhappy marriage because you aren't trying to turn it around anymore. By blaming each other all you're really doing is displacing the blame from yourself. You're trying to relieve yourself of the guilt and frustration and shame that comes with making your partner unhappy. If this is where your marriage is you might be in an unhappy one. You can't hold hands if you're too busy pointing fingers and it's important to determine that if you guys are always constantly at each other's throats in this marriage you might be in an unhappy one. And you might be in an unhappy marriage where neither of you are trying to restore the happiness and that to me is the bigger challenge.

A third red flag that might mean you're in an unhappy marriage is if your spouse, if your partner is avoiding spending time with you. If spending time with you feels more like a chore or an obligation than a fun loving activity then that is a flag that you're in an unhappy marriage. If they are avoiding eye contact with you if they are avoiding commitments with you if they are avoiding long drives with you, dinners with you, it's because they're unhappy, and they're frustrated and they're tired and you might be too. And so if either of you feel this way about the other, that is definitely a flag that you feel like you're in an unhappy relationship.

A final but significant flag that might mean you're in an unhappy relationship is when you behave like you're not in one, if you behave like you're not in a relationship in your partner's absence. Only you can determine that if you feel like you're behaving as if you're single or not in a relationship in your partner's absence.

If there's one thing that we try to really hone in on and showcase and talk about at Happily Committed is that love is not luck, it's skill. Love is something you can learn to be good at. You can learn to be a better listener, you can learn to be more communicative, you can learn to love stronger, to love better, and to grow through struggle rather than be defeated by it. You can change it, you can reposition yourself and this relationship to fulfill you, to bring you joy to make your partner someone that you want to spend time with to make yourself someone that they want to spend time with. It really takes personal development and it takes a clear understanding of how your partner feels develop some perspective, develop an understanding as to why they feel the way they feel, and how them feeling this way impacts your experience in this relationship.

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