Why When You Detach, They ATTACH!

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When you detach your energy and you don't care about the outcome or you're not attached to the outcome or what people think of you and you don't need anything from them, they will attach themselves to you.

And in this video, I'm gonna show you one of the most powerful magnetic secrets I've learned, how you can detach from outcome to then have things attach and opportunities come to you.

And that's exactly what you're gonna learn, how to do it and why it's an absolute game changer. Now, the first thing to know about this process is that attracting love, attracting new opportunities, that is all about becoming and feeling in a vibrational state to that which you want or that which you desire.

Now, here's the thing about this. Magnetic energy is energy that is non-needy. Non-neediness is the key to magnetic energy. Now, non-neediness, what that means is that the person that is becoming magnetic or that is being the most unapologetic version of themselves, they do not need someone else's validation.

They do not need someone else's approval. They do not need someone else to be a certain way for them to feel safe and for them to give themselves permission to be their most authentic selves. Now, you could also say that the degree to which someone is non-needy is the degree to which someone has magnetic energy.

On the other side of that, the degree to which someone has needy energy is the degree to which someone will repel love and repel people to them. I've seen this work like clockwork in my life.

Literally, the more needy I am, the more I want someone to like me, and also, the more I change my own center of gravity, that is something that also was not allowing the person I was either in a relationship or dating to feel safe.

I remember when I first started to become more of the unapologetic version of me, I started to express the real me. I started to express what my true desires were. And as I did that, it had way more attraction than me being like a people pleaser, nice guy version of myself.

I remember with an ex-girlfriend, for example, I'd be like, we would, she was vegan, and I was like eating fish.

And I remember, this is like three or four years ago, what happened was, I would always like be like, "Okay, we're always going to the good vegan restaurants no matter what," and I would always just cater to whatever she wanted.

And I became aware that when I started becoming my own masculine presence and I started to also become like centered in my own body, I started to ask myself, "Okay, sometimes we can go to these good vegan places, but sometimes I wanna go like where I wanna go."

And I would then be like excited to go somewhere where maybe they also had vegan food, but then what ended up happening is I could tell that when I started leading and I started saying, "I wanna go here.

I'm sure they have some great vegan food, but I wanna go here because this is what I want," there was such a different level of attraction there than before when I was like, "Oh, are you sure you want this? Or like how can I make you happy?

I just wanna do what you wanna do." It was such a different energy. But basically what I did is, I detached from needing to please this person, and I started to detach from that and all the sudden, the energy completely shifted.

Now, one of the reasons being is because, one of the most common forms of attachment that I see, especially in the spiritual community, people that are empathic, that can feel other people's energy, is a people pleasing mentality, of wanting to please someone else.

Now, understand this about pleasing. Pleasing is a manipulative energy. It's manipulation.
It's saying, "I'm going to please you so that I get from you validation. I get from you the approval. I get from you love."

It's an exchange. And the thing is, is a lotta times what happens is, the people pleasing is a echoed energy from childhood of parent pleasing. It's from having a sense of self-worth that says, "I'm not good enough the way that I am, so if I can please someone else, then maybe I'll be enough.

Maybe I'll get their validation, their love, or their support." So, detaching from needing to please is one of the most magnetic things you can do. And one of the most attractive,
it's so counterintuitive, because the more you let go is the more that you will find that that attractive energy is there.

Now, why is that? Because when you let go of caring what other people think, when you let go of trying to get your own needs met through someone else, that is energetically very energy giving.

When you don't need someone else's approval, validation, or them to meet your needs, it's coming from a full cup.

Видео Why When You Detach, They ATTACH! канала Aaron Doughty