Affirmations to Help You Stop Being a People Pleaser without Feeling Guilty

People pleasing can steal your confidence and leave you feeling exhausted and guilty all the time. These affirmations will help you stop being a people pleaser, without feeling guilty. In this video, Christian life coach and confidence coach Trish Blackwell teaches you how to write your own affirmations, how to start saying no, how to use affirmations and how to create healthy boundaries as you learn that it's not your job to make people happy. If you've noticed some signs that you're a people pleaser, these positive affirmations will help you know how to escape the people pleaser trap and avoid the dark side of people pleasing, helping you realize that your own happiness is the only person's happiness you can choose.
 
Congratulations.
 
You have a beautiful heart.
 
The people pleasing voice is a liar.
 
It tells you that you should do more; that if you just do everything right and are everything to everyone, then everyone will be happy.
 
It tells you that it's better to just agree with everyone rather than to risk upsetting someone with your own opinion or preference, leaving you always feeling like a chameleon, ever-changing and always attention to everyone ELSE'S needs, rather than you own.
 
It will cause you to apologize excessively, question your self-worth and feel burdened by a false sense of responsibility for other people's emotions and lives.
 
You don't have to keep listening to the people pleaser voice.
 
You can learn to talk back to it.
 
You can decide to stop identifying as a "people pleaser."
 
Affirmations to Help You Stop Being a People Pleaser without Feeling Guilty
 
These affirmations will help.
 
1.I do not have to pretend to agree with everyone.
2.It's okay to say no.
3.I am loving people better when I first love myself well.
4.I am letting go of excessive apologizing.
5.My self-worth comes from within, not from other people's opinions of me.
6.I am not responsible for other people's happiness.
7.I am okay with people being mad at me, because I know I can't control how people feel.
8.I respect myself too much to be taken advantage of.
9.I am valuable for who I am, for the love I exude in this world, not for what I do for others.
10.I am not ruled by the opinions of others.
 

Take my "How to Write Custom Affirmations Workshop," … get it now on instant replay at www.trishblackwell.com/youtube-affirmations-free-workshop; when you sign up, you'll get my WRITE YOUR OWN AFFIRMATIONS WORKBOOK as a bonus gift.
 
I'll be teaching you:
 
*Why affirmation work, and how to use them successfully in your life to have more joy, more peace and more confidence
*How to write your own custom affirmation; including how to incorporate your faith and scripture into them
*The top three mistakes people make when incorporating affirmations into their lives, and what to do instead
 
Go to www.trishblackwell.com/youtube-affirmations-free-workshop

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