NICE NEEDS TO DIE! When You're TOO NICE to Men in #Dating #Relationships You Always Lose

Women waste a lot of time being too nice to men. This video explains why being a nice girl, (aka a pushover or a doormat) in your dating relationships is the wrong approach. If your goal is to have a man respect and adore you, you must become comfortable with giving to men only when they reciprocate and appreciate it. You must be willing to end things with any man who does not behave in a way that demonstrates integrity, responsibility, accountability, and appreciation towards you.

In my mind, one of the chief problems women have in dating relationships is that they give too much to men without demanding reciprocation. Women also go too much by what men SAY instead of judging them by what they DO. Therefore, the concept of women being "a nice girl", drilled into our heads from infancy, needs to die. Yup, I said it. NICE NEEDS TO DIE.

Ladies, you must stand up for yourself, establish firm boundaries with men for how you will be treated and talked to, and stop believing that "being nice" without expecting anything in return wins you points in the dating world. It won’t! Unconditional love is a romantic fairy tale.

Men are not women, and they will see being "a nice woman" as being a weak woman, easy to use and manipulate. When you are "too nice" it translates into you being someone that is overly compliant, placating, a people-pleaser type. You willingly and quickly sacrifice your own needs and desires for those of other people, which ultimately leaves you feeling not only depleted, but resentful, unappreciated, and used.

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Видео NICE NEEDS TO DIE! When You're TOO NICE to Men in #Dating #Relationships You Always Lose канала Relationship Coach Deborrah Cooper