Isolophilia: Healthy Love of Solitude (Solophilia)
Solophile better than isolophile. Differences between isolophile, schizoid, introverted, socially anxious, avoidant, depressive, and shy.
People too dumb, dishonest and high-maintenance. But choosing the Unabomber option – hermitlike monkish seclusion - is not isolophilia. It is a respite.
Isolophiles are not schizoid and a few are asexual: they crave solitude, they most enjoy their own company, and are happiest when engaged in solitary activities. But, society regards them as weirdos.
Well-meaning people attempt to impose on them companionship and group activities. Some isolophiles react aggressively to such incursions. They become misanthropic, cantankerous, ornery, offensive, haughty, and defensive.
This is a dysfunctional behavioral strategy of driving everyone away and securing the aloneness the isolophile needs in order to thrive.
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Видео Isolophilia: Healthy Love of Solitude (Solophilia) канала Prof. Sam Vaknin
People too dumb, dishonest and high-maintenance. But choosing the Unabomber option – hermitlike monkish seclusion - is not isolophilia. It is a respite.
Isolophiles are not schizoid and a few are asexual: they crave solitude, they most enjoy their own company, and are happiest when engaged in solitary activities. But, society regards them as weirdos.
Well-meaning people attempt to impose on them companionship and group activities. Some isolophiles react aggressively to such incursions. They become misanthropic, cantankerous, ornery, offensive, haughty, and defensive.
This is a dysfunctional behavioral strategy of driving everyone away and securing the aloneness the isolophile needs in order to thrive.
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
Видео Isolophilia: Healthy Love of Solitude (Solophilia) канала Prof. Sam Vaknin
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