How do I move from being a ‘place card’ to a priority?

Joey writes, “Dear Susan, thanks—the way you advocate authenticity is so refreshing. You’ve talked about people having you in reserve/place card, and how you should get up and move on. My question is what is the best way to do this? How much of a conversation should there be? I’ve been seeing a guy I really like for a while and would like more but I feel that I’m stuck as an option not a priority.”

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