He's Emotionally Unavailable? Get Clear With Him...

“He's Emotionally Unavailable - Get Clear with Him”

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In this video, I'm going to answer a customer question that came in, that once again, I think the answer is going to give some clarity to many other women who are in a similar situation with a guy that they've just met or had been dating for a while.

This question is from a gal we're going to just call her “Kim” for anonymity sake, she says: “Dear Clayton, thank you very much for your message. I'm watching all your movies. I really appreciate it. I got a question about what to do on how to convince a man? We've known each other for more than 3 years to be with me and start a relationship. The man is a doctor and extremely intelligent and he is possibly autistic. I can see him once or twice per month because he said “I'm getting attached and he has nothing to give me.” He is without fearing. No heart. No emotions. He said I am different than other women but he is like a wild animal and doesn't want to hurt me. I respect him so much and he knows that but I still wish to see him more often. What do I do?”

A lot of women who are dating a guy and who are in pseudo-relationship with a guy without any real hard boundaries or agreements. They're holding onto it because they are putting the connection above the integrity of their heart. They’re falling in love with the potential of what it could turn into rather than really staying in the reality of what it is. It’s a great waste of time because you’re picking guys who are emotionally unavailable.

When a guy says that he's not ready for a relationship and you are feeling like you are very invested in the interaction, you're invested in the connection, and the guy saying to that “he is not good at relationship, he feels like a wild animal, he doesn't want to hurt you,” believe him.

There's no amount of convincing at this point that is going to move this guy from feeling the way that he's feeling into suddenly believing in himself that he can be good at relationship.
There's something going on within him that is causing him to hesitate.

And if you stay in that connection with him and you compromise yourself because you are hoping that he will change for you.
At this point, it would be best to step back.

And I would I would say that that is the best thing to do is to step back from this and to really collect yourself and determine that and to ask yourself if this is all that he can give and this is all that he will possibly ever give is this enough for me?

And if the answer's NO you've got to walk away.

And it's not for punishing him. It's not for teaching him a lesson but rather it's for you to take a stand for what is most important to you, what it is that you desire most from this guy.

And in doing so the impact is that:
1. He gets to see the impact that he is having and that his way of being is having on someone that perhaps he does have a real connection with, that his way of being may very well push them out of his life,
2. It just communicates that you're a woman of value, that you are not willing to settle.

And, walking away doesn't mean giving this guy an ultimatum. It doesn't mean saying to him, “Hey I'm going to leave if you're not willing to step up,” because then that is you trying to manipulate him or trying to get him to move rather than taking a stand for yourself.

Taking a stand for yourself in this is simply just saying, “Okay I'm going to have to back off because I realized that I'm not going to be able to respect myself if I stay in this situation I'm not going to I'm not respecting my heart. If I stay in the situation and which were not on the same page,” and then actually backing away.

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This eBook will walk you through getting the 5 secrets to unlock his heart without manipulation, lies or playing games.

In your corner,

Clayton

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