Relationship advice for the expectations of couples in love.

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Expectations can create many false illusions.
We often expect that when we get something that we want, then we will feel happy. Very often the expectations and the reality are very different. Why do we follow expectations all the time, when we already know that our expectations are very often wrong ? Why do we keep running after the expectations ?

Expectations can create illusions in our mind. What we expect can create an atmosphere in our relationships. This atmosphere can be good or it can be bad from the start. We expect something from the person that we love. We love to be around this person. There is an expectation about the pleasure, the future, and the personality of the person that we want to love. When we are lucky enough to be in a good relationship, then we want our expectations to become reality. It is wrong. Very wrong and egoistic. This pressure of previous expectations is the main reason why relationships break. We expect something, then this something does not become reality, then we feel frustrated and depressed. It is like a strange cycle of dreams and frustrations.

All of us fall into this trap of expectations. Parents expect too much from their children. Lovers expect too much from their romantic partners. The boss is expecting too much from the employees. This expectation of the exact future is the main reason for frustration and broken dreams. epSos.de fell into this mental trap many times. We all fall into this mental trap. It is possible to break away from this cycle of frustration and misfortune.

The best relationship is between two people who like each-other without trying to change each-other or to expect to fulfill personal expectations with the help of the other person. The best relationship is when there is friendship, positive words, helpful actions, respect and trust between the people. It is very hard to build this type of relationship and we all crave for this. We are addicted to this type of love. Many people never find this type of relationship, but we all try. Some of us try harder than we do, and they succeed too. The true love is only possible when we grow our personality to a high level of kindness, respect, trust and the excitement to be with a good person, without trying to change this person to become better than they already are. We are more happy, if we just enjoy a company of a good person, without trying to create any type of pressure. It is difficult, but possible. We all have seen very old couples who walk together and smile. Those couples did fail many times, but they did learn and they did grow their personality to a high level of trust, until they understood how to love each-other honestly and without demanding the fulfillment of their own expectations.
Some people say that the true love and happiness is only in our own heart.
Some of those people gave up. They create a false illusion, because they gave up the search for a romantic partner. It is possible to share and to receive more love and happiness with somebody without expecting the fulfillment of the dreams with the help of another person. Love and happiness from the inside is like a conversation with only one person in the room. It is like talking to the mirror. There is more love to build, if you can share and grow it with a romantic partner. It's also more honest, than searching true happiness from within or from the personal pleasure. Most of us like good music, green plants, sunny days, bright colors and good flowers. Those things are external. We love them. They make us to feel happy. This is not the love from within. There are so many external things that we love, this is why it is wrong to say that true love only comes from within us.

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