Qualities to Look for When You Date Someone | Tom Bilyeu & Lisa Bilyeu

When it comes to dating, choosing the right person to give a try, or not, can be so tricky. You need to have a set of standards, boundaries and a list of qualities and traits you use when deciding who to date. You’ve heard it before and it’s worth repeating again, “selection matters.” The question is how do you begin to make a list of those qualities, beliefs and values and prioritize them. Many of you may agree that starting with standards and boundaries is a great move, but how much weight does that list of qualities hold? Tom and Lisa discuss how much they each hit the mark (or not) on each other’s list of predetermined desired traits. It comes down to knowing your personal values, knowing what qualities you’re looking for, and it’s more important to be open to unexpected new things, and discovering who someone is.

Relationship Theory with Tom and Lisa Bilyeu encourages healthy, loving, life long relationships. Whether you are fresh out of your last relationship, on a break, taking time to heal from a breakup, or looking for ways to strengthen the romance and bond in your current relationship, Tom and Lisa are sharing their 20 years of experience. They’re taking questions and giving relationship advice that will enhance all of your relationships.

SHOW NOTES:

Preconceived Notions | Why relying on your instincts over a premade checklist is better [1:32]
Fundamentals | Lisa shares why fundamentals are more important than characteristics [5:23]
Be Open | discovery and open to unexpected [8:39]

QUOTES:

“With online dating you're really making a decision on paper before you make a decision in real life.” Tom Bilyeu [2:45]

“If I had made sure you had to hit these marks before going on that first date, I don't know if we ever would have gotten that first date, and then within that I found all these small intriguing things I never realized existed” Lisa Bilyeu [7:49]

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