Dating a divorced man - 7 Tips You MUST Know

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Dating A Divorced Man? 7 Tips You MUST Know...
By: Carlos Cavallo
Dating a divorced man? Before you get too far in the relationship, there are things you must know.

Divorced dating is challenging, there's no doubt about that. But if you have the right information, you can date a guy after divorce and make it work.

Dating today is definitely different than it used to be. There are so many more challenges. And the one thing you don't want to be is his next divorce.

You may be wondering:

Is he ready for another relationship?
Why did he get divorced before?
Is he damaged goods?
How do I know if he will make a commitment again?
And if you take into consideration that divorce rates are only climbing, and only one out of two marriages stays together, you need to be very sure you know what you're getting into when you date a divorced guy.

As matter of fact it doesn't matter if this guy was married or just in a long-term relationship. These tips apply to any relationship where you want to be smart and make it work.

Let's just jump right in with -

Tip #1: Know how deep the pool is…!
Would you ever jump into a swimming pool without knowing how deep the water is?

Then you definitely would never jump into a relationship where you didn't know what was going on with him and why it ended.

You owe it to yourself to find out what his history is. If you don't know what you're getting into, you are very likely to step on a landmine at some point.

Every man has history. And the more you know about it, the better off you are.

Think about it:

Would you buy a car without at least finding out what the reviews said?
Would you buy a house without having an inspector check it out?
Of course not.

Knowing everything you can about him is absolutely essential if you want to make the relationship work.

One thing you should not do is try to learn everything about him on the first couple dates. Take your time and collect your data.

On date number one and date number two, you should focus on listening in between the lines with him. Don't let your fantasies start to pull you into dreaming about your wedding dress quite yet.

That might sound a little bit funny, but you'd be surprised how many women make a decision about a man based on initial chemistry. (And men do the exact same thing…)

As the relationship progresses, you should know about why he got divorced. You should also ask him one very important question:

"What do you think the biggest thing that caused your marriage to fail was?"

And then listen very carefully to what he says next. Take mental note of where he places the blame.

If he blames both him and her, that's an excellent sign. It means he knows he had a part in it.

Red flag: if he says that it was all her fault, that's a man you should probably run away from.

Don't forget to share a little bit of your history too. If you were married before, let him know about your relationship. And especially let him know what you learned from it.

And let him know what your standards are now.

Tip #2: Divorced Dating - Be a smart turtle…
A smart turtle knows that slow and steady wins the race.

Keep in mind the man who has come out of a divorce takes much longer to get over the loss of his marriage. Divorce hits a man much harder than it does a woman.

I know this may feel oddly contrary, but it's true. Men do not have the same emotional resiliency to bounce back that women do.

Men who get divorced are depressed more often, and very often commit suicide much more frequently as well. It's not a pretty picture, but it's true.

"Men were more vulnerable to the adverse effects of divorce, including larger health declines and lower subjective well-being after separation, higher risk of adopting bad health habits, elevated mortality, disproportionate declines in satisfaction with family life, higher dissatisfaction with custodial arrangements, and greater feelings of loneliness and social isolation..."

Now that you understand this, you may also understand why men are very cautious after a divorce or separation. In order for him to think about a new relationship, he has to feel safe in your relationship.

Which means you need to -

Watch the video for the rest!

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Carlos Cavallo
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Dating A Divorced Man
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