Toxic relationships - Secrets and Lies (Kdramas)

This note is long but please read it, it contains additional information and details to help you understand the video. First, the technical points:

I. The names of the dramas, music, coloring and software are in the description.
II. The video is generally about Victim blaming but I wanted to explain how the abusers operate and what the effects are on the victims.
III. The video is in two parts: first, how a victim can feel trapped and second why victim blaming is always a bad thing.
IV. I have drawn a sort of parallel between sexual abuse and domestic abuse, since they are both abusive behaviors and since I have noticed that the same arguments are often used to justify one or the other. My goal here is to show that whether it is for disrespect of consent, or in conjugal violence, the victim is never to blame and that there is no excuse to be found for the aggressor.
V. By activating the subtitles, you will find numbers and titles (for example: 2/ Minimizing) that correspond to different moments in the video and that refer to the explanations that follow in the rest of this note. The goal is to give you more explanations.
VI. I also try to show how the excuses and comments often made are in line with the abusers' techniques of victim blaming. The titles of the sections (e.g. “Jealousy is a proof of love”) are preconceived notions, often used arguments.

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NAME OF THE DRAMAS :
• : the ones where the abusive behavior or the toxic relationship is NOT explicit

- 00:00 : TW
- 00:12 : When the weather is fine
- 00:24 : Age of youth
- 00:28 : Because this is my first life
- 00:33 : Love Alarm •
- 0:36 : Fight for my way •
- 00:39 : Cheese in the trap •
- 00:43 : Age of youth
- 00:48 : When the weather is fine
- 00:51 : The world of the married
- 00:58 : Age of youth
- 1:04 : Your honor
- 1:07 : Love in sadness
- 1:09 : True Beauty •
- 1:11 : Uncontrollably found •
- 1:14 : Love in sadness
- 1:18 : Your honor
- 1:21 : Lawless lawyer
- 1:23 : Extraordinary you •
- 1:25 : Your honor
- 1:27 : Something in the rain •
- 1:31 : Catch the ghost
- 1:35 : Age of youth
- 1:38 : Angry mom
- 1:41 : Boys over flowers •
- 1:44 : The penthouse
- 1:45 : Because this is my first life
- 1:50 : Your Honor
- 1:54 : Angry mom
- 1:56 : Be melodramatic
- 1:59 : Something in the rain •
- 2:02 : Age of youth
- 2:04 : Cheese in the trap •
- 2:06 : She would never know •
- 2:09 : Playful kiss •
- 2:12 : When the weather is fine
- 2:16 : Live
- 2:19 : Extraordinary you •
- 2:22 : Your Honor
- 2:24 : Live
- 2:28 : Because this is my first life
- 2:32 : Catch the ghost
- 2:38 : Your Honor
- 2:40 : Love in sadness
- 2:42 : Extraordinary you •
- 2:44 : True beauty •
- 2:46 : When the weather is fine
- 2:52 : Love Alarm •
- 2:54 : Playful kiss •
- 2:56 : True beauty •
- 2:58 : Radio Romance •
- 2:59 : Fight for my way •
- 3:01 : Love Alarm 2 •
- 3:03 : When the weather is fine
- 3:05 : My ID is Gangnam beauty •
- 3:07 : Age of youth
- 3:09 : Fight for my way •
- 3:11 : Something in the rain
- 3:13 : The world of the married
- 3:14 : The penthouse
- 3:16 : Love Alarm •
- 3:18 : Love in sadness
- 3:20 : Live
- 3:22 : Angry mom
- 3:25 : Was it love •
- 2:27 : It’s okay to not be okay
- 3:29 : Be melodramatic
- 3:24 : Because this is my first life
- 3:48 : Your Honor
- 3:53 : It’s okay to not be okay
- 4:00 : Live
- 4:04 : Your Honor
- 4:12 : Catch the ghost
- 4:19 : Live
- 4:33 : Note

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Видео Toxic relationships - Secrets and Lies (Kdramas) канала Marie TB [유토피아]