“Twin Flames” and Their “Empaths”: Danse Macabre
Your Twin Flame is Narcissist, Psychopath, Con(fidence) artist
Twin flame, other half
Idealized mirroring of an idealized version of yourself (past, present, future)
Co-idealize yourself (narcissistic defense grandiosity)
Same traits, preferences, behaviors, values, goals, boundaries, dreams PLUS (you on steroids plus added features)
Legitimizes, sense of belonging, being seen (existence validated affirmed)
He is perceived as either superior or a reinforcement the cavalry which will allow you to reach utopia (no place, a pessimistic word)
Cold empathy, scans vulnerabilities, idealizes you, self-limerence, hall of mirrors, shared fantasy, cult
He becomes both parental figure and your false self and is introjected as such regresses you to before separation/individuation (infantile state): iternalized objects reduce dependence on external objects.
Monopolizes regulatory functions
Others perceived as dysregulatory and deflating which leads to paranoia and isolation
Continued self-aggrandizement (as empath) perpetuates his roles and reinforces his introject, continues the abuse
Like in Stockholm syndrome he becomes source and regulator of life, self-esteem, wellbeing, self-love and has the power to inflict hurt.
Regression to pre-separation/individuation forces you from external to internal object relations (schizoid), his introject is parental but it is also YOU, a component of your identity.
Symbiosis is not merger fusion (empty core)
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Видео “Twin Flames” and Their “Empaths”: Danse Macabre канала Prof. Sam Vaknin
Twin flame, other half
Idealized mirroring of an idealized version of yourself (past, present, future)
Co-idealize yourself (narcissistic defense grandiosity)
Same traits, preferences, behaviors, values, goals, boundaries, dreams PLUS (you on steroids plus added features)
Legitimizes, sense of belonging, being seen (existence validated affirmed)
He is perceived as either superior or a reinforcement the cavalry which will allow you to reach utopia (no place, a pessimistic word)
Cold empathy, scans vulnerabilities, idealizes you, self-limerence, hall of mirrors, shared fantasy, cult
He becomes both parental figure and your false self and is introjected as such regresses you to before separation/individuation (infantile state): iternalized objects reduce dependence on external objects.
Monopolizes regulatory functions
Others perceived as dysregulatory and deflating which leads to paranoia and isolation
Continued self-aggrandizement (as empath) perpetuates his roles and reinforces his introject, continues the abuse
Like in Stockholm syndrome he becomes source and regulator of life, self-esteem, wellbeing, self-love and has the power to inflict hurt.
Regression to pre-separation/individuation forces you from external to internal object relations (schizoid), his introject is parental but it is also YOU, a component of your identity.
Symbiosis is not merger fusion (empty core)
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
Видео “Twin Flames” and Their “Empaths”: Danse Macabre канала Prof. Sam Vaknin
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