What Did I Learn From a Toxic Relationship | LaNomRah

What and how did I learn from a toxic relationship? How can hurt & pain teach you to trust yourself and your decisions?

In this video I offer up some encouragement and reminders on how to let the things in life that turn out to be lessons not just be empty memories of pain, but tools for self development. As humans we often tend to forget. Forgetting allows us to pursue things in life with vigor and enthusiasm despite our having experienced hurt or disappointment pursuing them before.

Sometimes we must learn to stop pursuing things that aren't meant for us., and things that aren't good for us. Sometimes we continue to hold on, or we allow a person or situation back into our lives that does not add to our life. Actually it drains us more.

We must remind ourselves that we know ourselves best, and as such we are fully capable of making the best decisions for ourselves. Often the first time we are forced to make this decision to remove ourselves from a bad situation, that's the best decision we can make if only we could continue to honor it, and stick to it. When the Universe supports us, and everything falls into place for us to move forward in our best interests, while it is normal to experience doubt about our decision, it certainly isn't necessary to act on or entertain that doubt. We don't have to doubt ourselves into accepting others' misbehavior or mistreatment. We don't have to doubt ourselves into accepting hurt and pain.

I made this video months ago and I figured now is as good a time as any to share it with you. At the time I needed the reminder and encouragement, and I suspect someone else does too.

Head on over to the blog for more on why giving others the benefit of the doubt sometimes isn't a benefit at all: http://www.lanomrahdesigns.com/2016/09/how-hurt-pain-taught-me.html

If you're reading this, or you can relate write "I'm learning too" in the comments.

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