How Secure People Handle Breakups.

Get your personalised attachment score: https://reneeslinks.com/
How do secure people handles breakups?

#1: secure people don’t usually break up with someone unless they’re serious about it. They aren’t about the stupid break up games because the games resonate more with insecurely attached people who can’t manage the fight or flight responses within themselves.

#2: secure people are sensitive to relationships that make them feel less secure. Their blueprint for relationships is that close relationships are a source of joy, shared resources and safety.

Thus they aren’t likely to tolerate the avoidant for long.

#3: the secure person is much more able to walk away and stay away because they have a rock solid sense of identity.

This solid sense of identity allows them to be genuinely self reliant, not like the compulsive self reliance that the avoidant models, which is fake inner security stemming from neglect.

Видео How Secure People Handle Breakups. канала Renée Wade