10 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Tell Him "I Do"

How to know that your partner is the best possible person for you to spend your life with. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, understanding, genuine care, and some kind of attraction in order to work out long term. We’ve compiled 10 things to look out for before you decide someone is marriage material.

SUMMARY:
- If nothing is ever their fault, then they’ve got no business being in a relationship with you. Part of being an adult is taking responsibility for your actions and owning up when you’ve done something wrong.
- If your partner shouts, screams, throws stuff, or breaks things when they’re mad, that’s a major red flag to think twice about being with them.
- As a general rule of thumb, you shouldn’t enter into a long-term relationship with someone who hasn’t lived on their own before. Someone who’s lived with their parents well into their 20s can easily become accustomed to having everyone else do stuff for them.
- Your partner needs to respect your boundaries too. If you don’t wanna do something, then they shouldn’t keep trying to change your mind. If you’re uncomfortable talking about something with them, then they shouldn’t force you to open up.
- If your partner is clingy to the point that they don’t like you spending time with other people, then they’re trying to isolate you, which is another sign of abuse.
- Just because you enter a relationship with someone, that doesn’t mean either of you is entitled to know every single detail of each other’s life. You aren’t obligated to share any information that you’d rather be kept private.
- One of you shouldn’t have to make sacrifices for the sake of the other. Remember, a relationship is about equals, not one person constantly giving to or taking from the other.
- Yes, opposites attract, but that’s more like a cat person falling for a dog lover or a city slicker and a country bumpkin. It doesn’t really apply when it comes to the fundamental stuff.
- Adults in healthy relationships rely on each other for support. However, there’s a flip side to that: your significant other shouldn’t be the only person you turn to for help.
- If your significant other is constantly discouraging you, belittling your achievements, and criticizing you, then they are both verbally and emotionally abusive, and you deserve better.

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