Human Design Catalyst #41: Bonding Strategies of the Profiles

As a follow up to last week's Valentine's Day special on Partnership Analysis, tonight we will be delving into the bonding strategies of the profiles.

How do you bond with the other? What kinds of relationships are the most fruitful, and what do you need to know in order to bypass resistance and be with another person with true respect for them in their uniqueness?

All relationships are limitations. We have fantasies of being able to share everything with our partner, but in truth, we share only a tiny fraction of our wholeness as a being. Jealousy emerges when we find that our partner shares something else with another person, and that we are unable to ever access that aspect of them. Most of what we are is dormant the majority of the time, and the other activates certain dormant properties within us, and vice versa. These activated aspects (through electromagnetics, dominance, compromise, and companionship, as we explored last week) are both exhilarating and limiting. We are able to access certain dormant parts of ourselves, while we are also conditioned and pulled away from our true selves, and trapped in a particular limiting configuration that is only a small subset of our potential. This is at the crux of all human relationship: the ability to access something within us, and create something new together through a unique shared chemistry, while also being inherently limited and unable to access other aspects of ourselves that become suppressed.

The only healthy way to relate to the other is to accept them fully as they are. Trying to change another person is the most cruel and disrespectful thing you can do—but how do you avoid this trap, of trying to change your partner, of wishing they were something else? Quite simply, it can only be avoided by learning to see who they are and how they operate. Human Design is a purely mechanical system that shows you the mechanics of individuals as well as partnerships, as if from an engineering diagram. Armed with this practical knowledge, you can learn to recognize and appreciate your partner in their uniqueness, and surrender to the limitation that is the relationship.

Recorded on 2/24/20 at 8:01 PM.

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