How to Spot a Hijackal. Crazy-Making Things Narcissists Do

Is your relationship one-sided?

Are you wondering if it's you?

Does your partner have to "win" always?

Is everything your fault?

You're already confused, just the way a Hijackal® wants you to be. A Hijackal is a person who behaves in ways that are common to people considered to have narcissistic, borderline, histrionic, or antisocial behavior patterns. I created the term, Hijackals, so that you would have a way of talking about the behaviors without trying to make a diagnosis. You simply need to know the signs so that you clearly know what's really going on in your relationship.

Hijackals love to reel you in with what is called "love-bombing." They have the ability to seem to be all that you ever wanted, your perfect partner, your soulmate. Then, once you've committed to them--and, oh, they're fast to want you to move in, marry, get pregnant--so that they can give up their false front and go back to being their real selves. Nasty, right?

For today's episode, I'm reading my free ebook, How to Spot a Hijackal, which you can download HERE: http://www.hijackals.com

You know if you're with a toxic, difficult person. Believing it is another matter. Most good people actually hope and believe that they can be more loving, kind, compassionate, patient, forgiving, compromising, ______, and then the HIjackal will change. S/he will change because they will finally believe they are loved.

NO! It doesn't work that way. Hijackals simply always want more...until you are worn down, torn down, and put down and there is nothing left of you, your self-esteem, or self-confidence.

LISTEN TO THIS OVER AND OVER AND LET IT SINK WAY IN! It could be that you had a HIjackal parent, and all this bad behavior on the part of a current partner or ex seemed somehow normal. NO! It isn't. HINT: Listen again if you need to.

I hope this help you see that more clearly. If you need help with this, I'm here for you.

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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.

I offer relationship advice for dealing with difficult issues and relentlessly difficult people.

I focus on helping my clients to stop tolerating abuse, and give them strategies for changing relationship dynamics.

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