How to Be a Challenge in a Relationship

The main reason why a man should be a challenge in a relationship with a woman is that it brings out the best in her.

When she feels as though it’s an enjoyable challenge to win more and more of his affection, love and interest, she becomes fixated on him and the relationship.

She tries harder to be a better girlfriend or wife, she tries to look sexier, she is more affectionate, more enjoyable to be around and so on.

Essentially, she behaves the way a woman usually behaves when a couple first starts dating (i.e. she tries to win the man over and make him fall in love with her).

Men who aren’t aware of the power of being a challenge in a relationship, often end up in a situation where their girlfriend or wife says that she is bored of the relationship, or that there is no spark anymore.

She might love him as a person, but something will be missing.

That missing something is the desire for her to impress him, win him over, be good to him, make him want her more and more.

Unfortunately, many guys out there don’t want to make their woman feel that way because they think it would be uncomfortable for her, or wrong to do that or that she would get frustrated and want to break up with him.

Yet, it’s what women really want.

Women love it when they become consumed by thoughts of you; when they obsess over you and want to win more and more of your love.

As long as you continue to be the good man that you are, then you’re simply giving her the ultimate gift by being a challenge for her to win over for the rest of your life together.

Being a challenge in a relationship isn’t about being selfish, not caring about her, being emotionally closed up or not allowing her to have an opinion.

It’s not about that at all.

What is it about? Watch the video above for 4 examples of how to be a challenge in a relationship.

Here are the 4 examples discussed in the video:

1. Don't worry about what she is thinking or feeling from moment to moment.
2. Make her feel motivated to improve and to impress you.
3. Don't let her control you with Ridiculous Rules.
4. Let her win you over about certain things.

For many more examples of how to be a challenge and how to easily create and maintain a relationship dynamic that causes your woman to feel increasingly respectful, attracted and in love with you over time, go to:
https://www.themodernman.com/blog/make-her-love-you-for-life.html

Cheers
Dan Bacon

Founder of TheModernMan.com and creator of Make Her Love You For Life

Видео How to Be a Challenge in a Relationship канала Dan Bacon