How to cope with mom's death

How to cope with mom's death

Below is a list of what I believe to be true, which has helped me to cope with the death of my mom.

Theme 1: Heaven vs Hell
1) There is life after death.
2) Practically everyone goes to heaven after they die, and there is no hell (as taught by certain religions).
3) My parents/loved ones and your parents/loved ones are in heaven and are no longer feeling pain or suffering.
4) I will go to heaven when I die, and you will go to heaven when you die.
5) I will meet my parents/loved ones in heaven, and you will meet your parents/loved ones in heaven.

Theme 2: Guilt vs Forgiveness
6) My parents love me unconditionally and have forgiven me for all the wrongs I’ve done against them. Your loved ones have already forgiven you.
7) My parents would not want me to suffer and neither would your love ones, so stop feeling sorry or guilty.
8) God loves us unconditionally and forgives us.

Theme 3: Brief Time on Earth vs Forever Thereafter
9) Our life after death is timeless.
10) Our life on earth is very transitory.
11) The span of our life on earth is but a tiny fraction of the overall span of our existence.
12) Death is just one event out of many event and experiences that we have to look forward to in the span of our existence which is infinite or timeless (or however way you want to conceptualize it).

Видео How to cope with mom's death канала KYK Creations