Don't Judge the Child

The behaviors you needed to engage in to survive or get through your family of origin traumas clearly don't work for you today. But don't judge the child who had to engage in those behaviors. Also, don't judge the patterns because they served you well in that time. Patterns like commitment phobia, over defensiveness, fear of intimacy, and more we're all patterns that most probably became a part of your life in order to survive. Today, they do not work in your adult relationships but have compassion for the child who had to create those patterns in order to get through it. And then, of course, go about the business of healing those patterns so you don't keep repeating it in your current adult life. That's what it means to be a generational pattern and cursebreaker.

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